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is it love agen??
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18/07/2008 : 11:27:47 : hay, 2 months without anything happen in our relationship... a friend of mine hav told me dat, "EN" is guiding their classm8 who is transferee...,i mean to say, hes planning to persuade her... i know despite of my smiling i know deep insde me, i was hurting...i dont wanna be plastik to myself...i feel it... i dont know why do i feel dis way, he fooled me twice, and i was hurt twice... one friend nman of him told me, dat he still love me, will i believe in his sayings?.. GOD, i dont wat to do!! theart
Please explain what's happened and why my boyfriend doesn't want me any more
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10/07/2008 : 11:14:45 : I am married but have been having an intense affair for almost seven years with the only man I have ever loved. Suddenly and without explanation he has dumped me. He has refused to give me a reason and will not speak to me. I am desperate enough to now split with my husband to be with him but I'm scared as it seems he no longer wants me. I am devastated and feel life isn't worth living. Can anybody offer any insight into what's happened to me? Please be kind; I'm very vulnerable at the moment.
should i move away from home to make new friends, start afresh somewhere else?
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29/06/2008 : 20:02:53 : i am a 22yr old out going lady, i consider myself rather confident, but recently i have found that i dont have many friends in the small fishing village i live in. i have more friends through work, but they have lives and families outside of work. i dont have any single friends, most of my friends have boyfriends and babies. i have been in contact with a friend of a friend online (a girl) and she has just split up from her boyfriend (who was my friend) and she lives in bristol. we met up for lunch and shopping yesterday, we got on really well. and later that evening i had made plans to go out with another friend, but yet again i got let down. i love goin out with my friends when i do i make the most of it. so that evening after i found out my friend had let me down i bought a bottle of wine, and asked my friend who id spent the day with if she wanted to share a place in bristol, i think it was a kinda spur of the moment thing and the fact i was rather pissed didnt help. but i am actaully seriously considering it still, cos i live with my grandparents but dont really get on with them due to the age difference etc. i have a lovely full time job which i love, i work with mostly men which is ideal haha. but i think i can do better. moving will be very hard for me, as iv never moved out of home b4, and i dont really like change. im not sure weather i will fit in or if i will like it. i am totally confused and anxious about it. can anyone give me any advice? thanks LR
Im Confused,
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03/06/2008 : 17:19:29 : Well Im 14 and confused about my sexuality, i have a boyfriend and i am seriously atracted to him and love him, but i have watched lesbian porn and get slightly turned on but only sometimes.So im not sure if im bisexual or straight, i know that im defonately not lesbian. And if i am bisexual how do i tell my friends let alone my boyfriend! I scared that they would treat me differently and i dont want everyone to know. I have never tried anything with a girl so i dont know if im atracted to them. I have nobody i can talk to about this so its all just cooped up inside me. Please help me! Bamba,
How do i get myself into a relationship in high school?
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25/05/2008 : 15:16:55 : I am a 14 year old girl. I would really like to have a boyfriend, but no-one seems to be interested. And i'm a bit too shy to just put myself right out there. What should i do? From Needaguy
How do i get myself into a relationship?
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25/05/2008 : 15:16:24 : I am a 14 year old girl. I would really like to have a boyfriend, but no-one seems to be interested. And i'm a bit too shy to just put myself right out there. What should i do? From Needaguy
I want my hot neighbour to look at me differently!
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22/05/2008 : 22:29:06 : I usually use an american version of this website called dearcupid but what i found was alot of americans answer my questions. With the culture differences i didnt get the best help i needed. So i was amazed when i found this site. About over a year ago I lost my virginity with someone much older than me! This man was my first love and he loved me back. However it wasnt meant to be. He lived to far away! So i went to America for the summer to work and when i came home i met someone new. That didnt work out either. I have spent a year between 2 guys getting hurt and only experiencing sex in a relationship! However recently thats all changed. I just want to have fun know and not be involved with anyone. I have always had a thing for my really hot neighbour! Only thing was i never ever done anything about it! Recently my confidence has grown and one day he was on msn! I just came out and asked him for some no strings attached fun! If he wasnt attracted to me i would leave well alone and not even be writting this know. Only thing is that he is. He told me that day that he cant do that with me because, i am his mums best friends daughter! Which i can understand. I do respect his feelings. However he also (The day before i was sunbathing in the garden with my bikini on) said said that i have a great set! and if i keep sunbathing in the garden with my paps out he may just change his mind! So i assumed he was just playing hard to get. I left it a week cause i was sick in bed and had other stuff on. In that week i was sunbathing again in the garden and he have me a really nice smile. A kinda of yeah i would smile. I thought i was in there. Until the next time we spoke online and he just said NO and that he cant because, he is scared our parents would find out! He is a bit older than me and has seen me grow up. Its not as if i dont understand where he is coming from. he has every right to say what he says. However I really would keep it too myself if we meet up and it would only be a one off thing. Some people may read this and call me a slut! However i have had a really hard year, i have been with a few guys and i never act like a teenager! I just wanted soem harmless fun with my hot neighbour! A conquest of mines. If i didnt think he was attracted to me then i would leave well alone but I know the only reasons he is against the idea of some fun with me is because, of who I am. I was writting this to see a males point of you and if anyone has any ideas on how to show him he can trust me to be silent. To know everything would be ok. The more he says no the more i want him. I have never felt this way before where I want someone only for some harmless fun! Its very strange to me. If anyone can help please msg back.
I put this in big questions as I didnt know what category to put it in quite a few seemed apropriate
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07/05/2008 : 20:29:31 : Im currently living with my dad and have started being violent towards him (he is 65 Im 38) this has happened on a previous occasion when I lived here before (we live in my fathers flat). I want to move im in Plymouth and want to move to Surrey. I have about £900 but that is all .Im unemployed too and have been for a while. I cant seem to find any bedsits or cheap accomodation in Surrey that I can afford and also there is the problem of moving my possessions too What can I do???
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