January 2010
I have put on weight over Xmas
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02/01/2010 : I am 22 and I seem to have put on 2 stone over xmas. Is this possible. I have been staying with my family and they would never say anything, in fact my Mum keeps feeding me up. I am afraid that when I go back ot work evryone will notice. I don't think I look that much bigger in the mirror. Where can I go to get an unbiased opinion?
I don't know anyone.
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02/01/2010 : I am 50 and was made redundant just before Xmas. I don't really have any friends they all have famliies where I do not. I spent the whole of Xmas alone. I wen to a pub on New Years Eve but everyone was really drunk and it wa frightening. Now I don't know what I am going to do in the new year as I have absolutely nothing to do and no-onw to meeet up with. Can anyone point me in the direction of a website for people in my position?
My girlfriends parents want us to get married.
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02/01/2010 : I have been going out with my girlfriend for 3 years. We went to her parents house on Xmas. They spent most of the time talking about when we were going to get married. What made it worse was that my girlfriend seemed to be in on it, like they had been talking behind my back. When we got home I said this to her and she went mad. She has now gone to stay with her parents again. I don't think that she will coem back unless I ask her to marry me. I am confused, I might have asked her to marry me but I don't want to under these conditions, I feel like I am being forced.
What should I do?
Should I find my Mum a care home?
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02/01/2010 : I am a 44 year old woman who lives alone with ther Mum because she cannot look after herself. I have been living like this for 3 years. Over the last 9 months she has become more and more difficult to deaal with, she doesn't know who I am most of the time now. I don't have much money, how ill does she have to be before Ican get any help with paying to put her into a nursing home?
I am 28 year old virgin.
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02/01/2010 : I still have not had sex yet I am 28. There are lots of reasions for this too many to go into here. I am just determined that I will lose my virginity in 2010. Can anyone give me any advice? I have not tried Internet dating yet and I don't think I want to. Thanks
HOw do i find out if i am pregnant
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02/01/2010 : Hello. I am 15 and was allowed out for the first time on Xmas eve without my big brother who my parents have alwys says has to come along to protect me. It turns out they were right to worry. At this party I got talking to this boy who I had never seen before and who did not seem to know anyone else there. He got me a drink, it was very strong, I recognised the taste of Gin because I have had it once before. I remeber feelong really dizzy then I was upstairs in one of the bedrooms and he was piling furniture against the wall so no-one could get in.
I passed out then. When I woke up I was alone in the bedroom and my clothes were not on right. How do I find out of I am pregnent without telling my Mum Dad or brother?
Do I have post natal depression?
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02/01/2010 : Hello I had a baby 8 months ago. I thought I was just tired from the prgnancy and giving birth and that it was this that was makin me feel bad. The only way I can describe how I feel is that I seem to be seeing the world through a black prism. Even my baby. I have been in trouble with the police and am therefore scsared to go to the Dr in case he tells them I cannot look after my child. I am a single parent and don't know who to turn to. Can anyone give me some help and advice please?
My son is greedy
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02/01/2010 : I have just finished spending Xmas with my 8 year old son. He seems to have gone into a sort of consumer frenzy. We had to go into the town to get some stuff the day after Boxing Day and he had a tantrum when I would not get him another present. I asked him if he could even remember all the presents that he had got and he could not. This did not stop him asking for more though. How do I teavh him that just buyinh stuff is not whatr life's about?
Can't name baby.
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02/01/2010 : My boyfriend and I are going to have a baby in 3 months. We cannot decide on a name. I know it sounds like a small thing but it is really something we cannot seem to get past. We simply cannot come up with anything that we both like. Plus whenever we come close to decididn he tells his Mum and she puts him off whatever name we have come up with. How can we sort this? It is breally driving us apart.
Scared to go back to work
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02/01/2010 : I have just had the most magical Xmas with my new girlfriend and her baby. Every time I think about going back to work on Monday I feel like crying. Am I stressed?
Want a partner
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02/01/2010 : I have decided that 2010 is the year I get a partner. I decided I would try Internet dating. When I went on line to try some of these sites I was a bit dissappointed. Nearly every profile I read said that they liked eating out, going to the Cinema, and going on nice holidays etc. All they seem to think about is whether the men they are going to meet have lots of money. And they weren't even anything to look at. Are there any sites anyone can recommend that are not so focussed on how much money you have got?
I have mislead this man
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02/01/2010 : Iam 38 and started using Internet dating about 6 months ago. I was nervous at first and put a photo of myself on the site that was 10 years old and also I was a lot slimmer then. I forgot about it really. I staretd talking to this man who seems really nice we have been talking to each other fotr 3 months. We decided to meet up next week. It was then that I remebered the photo. Do you think I should tell heim or just take a chance that he won't mind? He is the only person I have met on line who seems even remotely nice.
Help
What is depression?
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02/01/2010 : Ever since my wife left me in September I have been feeling worse and worse. At first I could not make any big decisions it was like I was waitiong for something to change before I could decide on anything. Now I cannot even make a decision about the smakkest things. I cannot even decide what clothes to wear or waht I am going to do on a daily basis. Am I depressed?
How is being a teenager different?
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02/01/2010 : My birthday was on Xmas eve. I turend 13. I do not feel any different to when I was 12. What is the big deal about being a teenager?
I want to get out of debt.
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02/01/2010 : I owe various banks and credit cards and building societies about 2 thousand pounds. I am determined to get out of debt this year. Can anyone give me advice on the best way of doing this? I am confused by all the website who all seem to be selling something.
Boys want to leave
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02/01/2010 : I am 42 and I have 2 boys of 17 and 15. They both told me that they are leaving home after Xmas. I think they are getting involved with the wrong crowd in our area. We live on a not very nice council estate. I know one of them is not old enough to leave but the older one is. Besides how do you actually stop someone leaving if theyv really want to? Can I call the Police or something? Has anyone else gone through anything like this?
I hide my food
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02/01/2010 : I am 18 and have just finished my first semester at University. I overheard someone saying I was fat when I started there in the autumn. Since then I have been dieting strongly. My Mum and Dad were shocked when they saw me at Xmas. My Mum has been trying to feed me up but I have been hiding my food fro her. I know I am overeacting to this comment that was made but I don't know how to stop myself from doing it. Can anyone help?
Fallen of wagon
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02/01/2010 : I am a 45 year old recovering alcoholic. Until Xmas Eve I had not had a drink for 2.5 years. I had a drink on Xmas Eve and could not stop. I have been drunk most of the time now for the last week and a half I do not seem able to stop. Help?
I do not want to be alone.
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02/01/2010 : I am a 58 year old woman. Until recently I had a 40 year old boyfriend. He left me suddenly at the end of November. To be precise he threw me out of his house where we were living. I had to got to a hotel until my flat became available again. That's how eager he was to see the back of me. I don't know why. He must have been bottling it up fpor ages, he even has a new girlfriend already. I feel I am too old to meet anyone now. I don't like men of my own age. Are their any websites for youger men who like older women where I can go and put my picture?
I want to know more about God
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02/01/2010 : I am a single man of 55. I live alone. I have made friends with a man at my local who is a committed catholic. He says I should come with him to Church as it would do me good. He says I do not have to believe in God or anything just come along for the company. Is this right? Surely you have to believe in God before you can go to Church? You can't just use it like a social club can you?
I like pain
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02/01/2010 : I am 16. Recently may best friend and I palyed a game where we saw who could hold their hands in the steam from the kettle for the longest. We were both a bit drunk. I can't stop thinking about it. In fact I started doing it on my onw the other day. Is this self harming? I did it until a blister came up this morning.
I want to leave.
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02/01/2010 : I have just had waht I hope is the last Xmas withmy girlfreind. I want to leave I don't think I can stay for another moment. The trouble is we own our house together and it was her deposit that enabled us to buy it. I know I am entitiled to half the house but how can I get half of her deposit? Belive me, if you knew what she had put me through then you would agree that she owes it to me.
Can't get over death of Mum
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02/01/2010 : My Mum died on Boxing Day 4 years ago. I still cannot get through Xmas with anyone around, O cry all the time. I think it is about time this stopped or I am going to become a very lonely old man. Is is possible that I have not dealt with my grief properly?
Drugs work
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02/01/2010 : I am 15 and have always found it hard to socialise. On New Years Eve I went to a party and a boy gave me a pill that he said would relax me. It really workred! I do not know what it was but it really helped. It was blue, does anyone out there know what it may have been and how I may be able to get hold of more?
I think my girlfriend is a cheat.
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02/01/2010 : I think my girlfriend is cheating on me. I have seen these tracker things on the tv that say they can let youn see everthing the person with the phone is doing. Do they work or are they just a gimmick?
My husband keeps telling me I am fat
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02/01/2010 : I have been married to the same man for 20years. Everything was alright until recently. Ovet the las 2 years I have put on a bit of weight and he keepson at me about it. He has put on weight as well, more than me, but he says it does not matter if men put on weight as they get older.I think he hqas been looking at dating sites and thinks he can do better than me. What should I do?
Bored of sex with husband
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02/01/2010 : I have been married for 9 years. I think I still love my husband but I no longer want to sleep with him. In fact it makes me feel sick. It is becomiong so I think all men are revolting. I daydream about having a girlfriend. Women are so much cleaner and smell so much nicer. Should I give it a go with another woman?
Worried about working from home
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02/01/2010 : Just before Xmas I found out that I will be working from home for 90% of the time from the new year. I don't want this. I am single and the only social life I get is at work. I just know that this will disappear once I work from home. Should In find another job? Has anyone else been thorugh this sort of thing. I guess this iswaht the Internet is for.
I think my husband is having an affair
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02/01/2010 : I have been married for 19 years. Our sex life has been non existent for the last 4 years. My husband started a new job 8 months ago and now hw wants to have sex all the time. I read that if your partner suddenly takes an interest in sex he may be having an affiar. Do you think he has met someone at his new work?
My parents are getting divorced.
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02/01/2010 : I am 17 and when I went home for Xmas my parents told me they would be splitting upn this year. I am an only child and have no-one to talk to about this. They also said they only stayed together for my sake which made me feel guilty. Who can I talk to?
Bad family Xmas
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02/01/2010 : I did not see my family for many years. I have just got back from spending Xmas with them and now I know why I did not go back for ages. They are horrible. The only timen they have anything to say is when they bad mouth people and they love it when things go wrong for others. There is no joy oin them at all. Is it ok just to ignore them again or am I expected to put up with it until they die?
My ex wants to go out again.
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02/01/2010 : I have been single for 2 years. So has my ex. She phoned me on newyears eve and we arranged to go out. I don't think it was a very good idea, I think she was just lonely. Now I do not know what to do. Any advice please?
Should I go to court?
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02/01/2010 : I split up with my ex 8 months ago. We have 2 children. We had quite a good arrangement at first where we shared the children. Now she has met someone and they seem to be becoming a family and shuttingme out. She does not bring them round when she should etc. Do I have to go to court to sort this or is there a way that does not cost so much money?
Made mistake with ex
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02/01/2010 : I split with my partner 9 months ago. We ended up in the same pub on new years eve. She came home with me and we slept together. It was a mistake, she thinks we are going to be together again and I don't want that. How can I tell her it was a mistake? She is still here.
I think I have an STD
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02/01/2010 : I went out with the lads just before Xmas and ended up having sex round the back of Liverpool Street station with this girl I met in a bar. I did not use a condom. Now I am in quite a lot of pain and I feel sick and dizzy. I have had to make a lot of excuses to my wife over Xmas. I don't know what I should do. Help.
stuck in a rut at work
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12/01/2010 : Hello. I have been back at work now for 1.5 weeks. My job is just as bad as I remember it before Xmas. I made a promise to myself that I would find a new job in the New Year but I can feel my determination ebbing away with every hour that passes of the New Year. How can I continue to motivate myself to get a more fulfilling job when my current one is so cushy?
Should I go to sex website?
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14/01/2010 : I am 43 and have been married for 9 years. We have 3 lovely children. My wife won't sleep with me anymore she is always too tired. Anyway I don't reeally think about her like that anymore. A friend of mine told me about a website where you can meet up with people just for sex. Would it be so bad if I used it and my wife did not know? Surely this has to be better than having an affiar?
Should my daughter go to boardign school?
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15/01/2010 : I have been married for 15 years and we have a lovely 7 year old daughter. My husband's mother died recently and we inherited quite alot of money. He says he wants our daughter to go to boarding school now that we can pay. We both love our daughter and want the best for her. He says it is a huge opportunity for her and that we should tkae it. She is bright and would definitely benefit from it. She says she does not wan to go,but he is adamant that it is the right thing. He keeps saying 'character is destiny' and that her being independant of us will be good for her.
I'm not sure, I can't tell if I wan to keep her with us for my sake or whether I should let her go. I suppose my question is am I being selfish wanting her around and not wanting to lose her this early in her life? She has been our whole life since she was born and I am not sure what I will do if she goes.
Can you be half gay?
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15/01/2010 : I find women boring. I have been married a couple of times and have had many realtionships. I find I now prefer the company of men. The thing is I do not find men physically attractive in any way. I have tried to imagine sleeping with a man and it just seems ridiculous. Women are just so much more attractive, plus they smell better. I need a man with the body and face of a woman. Any help?
Can't find any friends
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15/01/2010 : I recently moved to this country. I have found sites that introduce me to people from my own country. This is no good though. All my real friends are at home, these people don't know me at all How can they be my friends, they make me feel more lonely.
Can't stand going home.
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15/01/2010 : I have been maried for 5 years. Up until recently everything was going well. Suddenly over the last 6 months I have not felt like going home in the evening. I make up all sorts of excuses to stay at work. Sometimes I sit in the pub at the end ofour road just drinking mineral water rather than go home. It is like I have given up on the whole idea of a partnership being the best way to live. There is not soemone else or anything. I would not leave her for anyone, I can't imagine it being any different with anybody else.
What can I do?
Can't get pregnant
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15/01/2010 : My husband and I decided to have a baby. I am still working. Things at work are really difficult and busy right now. We have ben trying for a year now with no luck. Can stress stop you conceiving?
An I owed any money?
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15/01/2010 : I ahve just found out that the company I work for is going into receivership. I have worked there for 35 years,if I was made redundant they would owe me a lot. If they go bankrupt will I get paid?
Should i make a move?
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15/01/2010 : I am going out to my local tonight. There is this beautiful girl who goes there. I really like her. She is quite a lot older than me. Sometimes she looks at me, I think she might like me. Should I try and speak to her or should I wait for her to speak to me? This has been going on for a year now.
Aging droop
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15/01/2010 : When I was 18, if I got an erection I could hang a wet bath towel on it. I could grab it, try and bend it and I would not be able to. Now that I am in my fifties, if I get an erection and I grab hold of it, I can bend it in half. Does this mean I have got stronger?
what i do now??
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17/01/2010 : i have a female friend .we met at orkut.in a short time we become very close to each other but we were still friends.now i figured out that she has changed she start to avoid me even sometime refuse to talk..and this is not acceptable for me.i feel like looser.wt can i do now? I dont want to lose her.
Scared where I live
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18/01/2010 : I live alone and have doen for the last 2 years since my husband died. O live in a flat in a council block and there is a lot of criminal activity around. The other day I really though that I was starting to get over the death of my husband when there was a knock on the door. I opened it more confidently than I have for a long time and this man of about 29 was standing there. Before he could speak he was tasered by some policmen who were arresting him, it was very violent. Now I am afriad to open my door, I do not know what will happen next.
What should I do?
How bad is crack?
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18/01/2010 : I am 18 and heve never really had a proper job since I left school. I take drugs socially but not that much because I cannot afford it. The other day I was out and this slightly older guy started talking to me. We really got on and I went to his flat the second day I saw him. I have taken cocaine before and he said that he had some. When I got to his flat he offered me some crack. I said no at first but then he had some and I changed my mind. This was about 3 months ago. It did not bother me at first but now I cannot think about anything else.
Soemtimes I dream about smoking it but I always wake up before I get the hit. I think I may be crack addict. Where can I go to get help? I cannot tell anyone.
Daughter in trouble over Facebook.
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18/01/2010 : My daughter is 13. She has only had a Facebook account for 3 months. The police came round the other day and said she had been bullying someone online. They said I had to monitor waht she did online or I would be respnsible. I do not know anything about computers and do not know what to do. Where can I get help?
Is porn illegal?
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18/01/2010 : I am 14 and have just gotmy first laptop that I acn use in my bedroom without everybody else in the house knowing what I am doing. If I watch porn is it illegal?
Am-Dram Dramas
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19/01/2010 : I made friends with a woman a few months ago through a hobby of mine (stage performace). She seemed great at first (very friendly) but rapidly turned very intense and got into arguments with several other people we both know. I would get rung up by her over quite small things and constantly have to calm her down. I backed away from her a bit- as nothing I seemed to do really helped matters. I can't deny that some of the people she was rowing with were idiots- but my advice to simply step away from them fell on deaf ears.
She didn't seem able to help herself from rowing with people (rather than walking away). She also came to possess some knowledge of a person she had a row with and seems to have tried to ruin his career with it by passing it on to the most damaging person possible (stage performance being a hotbed of gossip!). There are lots of things I wish I had done differently, but now I am worried that she is going to try and ruin my reputation too- as the performance is something I'd really like to go into.
She is very outgoing and good at networking (above rows aside)- I feel that she may make a reputation up that will precede me and turn people away from me before I've actually met them! Help!
How do I talk to a guy and become friends with him?
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22/01/2010 : I started liking this guy at school, and for the first time I think I actually like because of his personality and how he treats people. I want to at least be friends with him, but the thing is that he is in none of my classes. I have tried appearing in his classes with my friends (who are in his classes), but I've never had the guts to just talk to him. Is there even a way to speak to a guy without looking random like that? He seems to be like, a sort of average teenager, not exactly like a loner but not popular either.
He seems friendly enough, but how do I start talking to him? Help please?
My child does not know who to choose
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22/01/2010 : I have recently seperated from my wife, we have a 9 year old girl. I have always been very close to our daughter, my ex's relationship with her is more argumentative. Anyway, recently my daughter seems to feel that she has to choose between us. I have told her she does not bu this does not seem to have any effect. How can I convince her that none of this is her fault and that we both love her equally and she does not ave to choose between us?
Can a man be freinds with a woman?
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22/01/2010 : I have been at college for 1 term. I made friends with this girl in the first week and we have hung out ever since. The thing is I want her to be my girlfriend now and I do not know how to say this to her or whether it will frighten her off if I do. I do not wan to lose the friendship we have. Is it possible for girls and boys to be friends without the boy wantong to sleep with the girl?
I don't like the way my husband parents.
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22/01/2010 : I have been married to my husband for 6 years we have 2 beautiful children 1 boy and 1 girl, they are 7 and 5. When they were very small he was ok with them. Now that tehy are getting bigger he ubdermines them. He is very rarely aggressive but he is never positive. If they want ti do something he just says what would you wan to do that for, there's no point. I have been told this is passive aggressive and can be very dmaging to your children. Does anyone else have experience of this?
How old before I can leave my child?
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25/01/2010 : My son is 8 years old. He is quite good at looking after himself. I am single Mum. How old does he have to be befor I can leave him on his own and go out and have some fun? I have not been put for years and I think I am going mad.
Can't stop eating Jaffa Cakes
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25/01/2010 : I am trying to diet now that it is the new year. The thing is I cannot stop eating Jaffa Cakes. Every time I open a packe I have to finsih it. I am eating about 6 packs a day rught now. Plus I am still eating all my normal meals. I really need some help to stop.
My Mum is senile
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25/01/2010 : My Mum is very old now. She has mild demetia. Whenever we go out she atrts making racist comments whebever we see black people or Indians I knew she always though a bit like this but now her mind is going a bit she seems determined to speak up in public. If I say anyhtiong she says I am making a fuss, but some of the things she says are really offensive.
Might have got pregant while boyfriend was away
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25/01/2010 : I am 26 and pregnant. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. He went away fort he weekind with his mates recently despite me telling him In did not want him to go. I got annoyed and went out on the town with my mates. I ended up sleeping with this bloke I met that night and have not seen since. Now I pregnant and I do not know if the baby is my boyfriends or not. What should I do?
I'm going to be left on the shelf
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25/01/2010 : I am 29 and single. I have just been listening to the radio and a report has come out that says if yoyu rech 30 and youi have not found Mr Right you should think about just settling for someone. Does anybody agree with this?
Made redundant
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25/01/2010 : I just went into work this morning and we were all told that the company had gomne bankrupt and we all had to go home. I am 55 and have worked at this company for 22 years. I do not nthink I will find another job. What should I do?
Can't face work
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25/01/2010 : I have been off work with stress for the last 9 months. My Doctor hasb rfetired and I went to see the new Doctor last week. He told me that he would not be signing me off any more and I have to go back to work. Can he do this? I am terrifoed of going back to work. What can I do so that I do not have to?
Girlfriend smells petrol
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25/01/2010 : I have been seeing this lovely girl for about 3 months. Whenever we go out in her car and she has to fill up with petrol she spends at least 3 or 4 minutes sniffingf the petrol fumes. Should I do soemthing? Do oyu think she has a problem?
My fiance thinks about divorce
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25/01/2010 : I have been engaged for 6 months. Whenever I mention our upcomong marraige my fiance always says we acn get divorced if it does not work out. She even said this when we were at a party on Saturday in front of all of our friends. I don't think this is the right attitude to have before we gaet married. Am I just being oversensitive?
Marriage mistake?
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25/01/2010 : I have been married for 2 years. My husband had a very well paid job when we met and married which all happenned very quickly. I am not ashamed to say that I married him for his money. Now he has lost his job and he says he wants to be a primary school teacher. This is not what I sigened up for. What should I do?
job changed
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27/01/2010 : I am 39 and went for a job interview just before Xmas. I got the job and they said I could start in the New Year.I started 2 weeks ago. The thing is the job I am doing is not the one I applied or was interviewed for. They told me that job did not exist when I sterted. The job I have is well below what I applied for and they are not paying me as much as they said they would. Is there anything Ican do about this?
Parents won't come to wediing
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27/01/2010 : I am about to marry my boyfriend. We went out when we were very young and then did not see each other for years. In this time I met and married someone else who I then divorced. Then I met my old flame again and now we are getting married. My parents did not like him back in the day and they say that they will not come to our wedding. It is very important that they come, how can I make them understand that it is important to me that htey come?
One night stand now this...
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27/01/2010 : I lost my virginity 2 months ago to a girl I had not seen until yesterady sinec. She tells me she is pregnant. I thioght that you could not get girls pregnant if it was oyur first time. Is this true? I am 14.
lONELY
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27/01/2010 : I have not been out of my house yet this year. I lost my job in November last year and have no firends. I think I am losing my mind. What can I do? I do not have any maoney either.
am i the real dad?
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27/01/2010 : My girlfriend is 6 months pregnant. Up until last night there was no question in my mind thatb the baby was mine. Now she tells me that it may not be as she slept with someone else at the relevant time. I am confused, what should I do?
My boyfriend wants sex
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27/01/2010 : I am 15 and am a virgin. My boyfriend is 19 and we have been going out for 6 months. He says it is time that we slept together. I don't want to and besides I am not really old enough yet. How do I tell him I don't want to without him leaving? He told me that there are plenty of girls who will sleep with him if I won't.
i AM SAD
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27/01/2010 : I am 14 and on the radio this morning I heard a report that said that 1 in 5 teenagers are depressed about their appearance. I think I am 1 of these. Who can I talk to about this?
Can't stop eating
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27/01/2010 : I am 37 and weigh 19 stone. I have not always been like this. The thing is that thses days once I start eating in the morning I cannot stop. The only way I can control my appetite is if I do not eat first thing. But I always do and then I cannot stop. Help!
Can my debt find me?
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27/01/2010 : I owe various credit cards roughly £9,000. I have moved to another town, does anyone think they will coem looking for me?
In love with younger woman
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27/01/2010 : I am 47 year old man. I take my daughter to school every day. There is a woman who brings her son the the school everyday who I always talk to She is lovely but I think she must be about 25. Don you think she could be interetsde in a realtionship or am I kidding myself?
Am I Being Pathetic ?
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28/01/2010 : I have a bit of a dilemma. I have recently got a new boyfriend and we was best friends for a year, so we are really close. He isn't a very good kisser, I know it sounds silly but it's really starting to put me off. I can usually tell him anything and everything but I really don't want to hurt his feelings. I have tried asking my mom but even she doesn't know what to say. How can I improve his kissing without telling him ? Help Me "/. - Anonymous
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28/01/2010 : can we make frn.??
break up or make up? what do i do?
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30/01/2010 : i have been with my fiance for 3 years. it started off good, but now we fight all the time, i dont have any desire to have sex with him, half the time i dont want to be by him, and i dont cuddle with him at night. we fight about stupid things to. and my ex and i are still friends. i talk to him alot. just recently i confessed to him that i still think about him, and he told me the same. i dont know what to do. part of me wants to leave my fiance and rekendle the flame with my ex. But then i think about my fiance with another girl and i dont like it.
i get jealous just thinking about it. Im unhappy, i know he loves me very much and would do anything for me. but when we fight and he says hes going to go back to our hometown, i dont stop him. its almost like it would be easier if he ended it. he let his family and all his friends and moved with me. i need help please.i feel as tho in falling out of love with him...
How shoud I cop with divorce while my wife depres for long time and now pregnant?
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31/01/2010 : Hi, we have been married for 10 yrs,she was depresed on and out during these yrs we had problem and argument most of the time,i left home for 2weeks but she called me and cried,beg me to come back I came back ane 4 yrs ago we decided to have baby might it change our life but it got wors than before because she got sever post natal depression and took 2yrs misrable life. When she feel better she start argu again ,and start abus me emotionaly.she wanted second baby but I didn't realy I felt like passive and I gave up,now she is 4months pregnant.
we had very bad argument last week and she said you are nothing to me you can leave if you like. I left home again last week for the sake of my kid and really tierd of every day argument and shouting. She sent me few abusive message again while cring. now,what shall I Do? I don't like to go there. I am depres and want to get divors? Is this right decision for my situation after 10yrs?