October 2011
what should i do, i am sixteen and think i might be preganant?
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02/10/2011 : dear friend, i am sixteen years old and i think i might be preganant, the boy i had sex with, we are no longer in a relationship. we had sex 3 times without protection but eachtime he pulled out, i know it was childish and stupid but i thought we would be ok, then a friend told me i might not be so i looked up a few things and leared about 'pre cum' and i am so worried now, i can't have a baby but i am against abortion, i don't know what to do and i fear of losing my friends and family over this, please help me? do you think i could be? and what should i do? i am still in school and there is no chance of a future between me and my ex boyfriend, so i will not be stable but i still don't know if i should go through with an abortion? and how will i feel after it all? will it hurt me? will the baby feel it? please please help?
what did i do wrong to be ignored?
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05/10/2011 : I started speaking to a guy i used to work 3 years ago. We spoke everyday without fail over texts and a few calls. after a month he told me he loved me and that he cared about me alot.Then after about 8 weeks we started meeting up. We eventually started kissing etc. We got close to sleeping together but i stopped it. I told him then that im not just going to sleep with him and he said he respected that.We were fine until one day he just stopped talking to me. I thought his phone was broke so i messaged him on facebook.
He blocked and d me and so did his mother (i knew before him) A couple of months after i managed to get a reply of 'you went wierd on me alot happened at home im sorry' hes completely ignored me for 5 months after promising that he would always love me etc....the thing is i really love him and even if we werent messing around id still love for him to be in my life. Can someone explain what i did wrong? Ive been nothing but nice to him. I'm not clingy, if i dont hear from him in the day ill just send a quick message of 'you ok?' Was i lied to? Is it cos i didnt sleep with him?
How do I deal with unrequited love, when I see her often?
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15/10/2011 : I have know this girl for a long time as a friend, then suddenly realised I liked her more than a friend. I thought it was just infatuation and that I would get over it. That was over 2 years ago. When I realised that I actually had deeper feelings for her, I resolved to tell her. Enter the new boyfriend. He was new to our social group, and grew on us. I'm not sure if I'd actually call him a friend though. The killer was that I had decided to tell her the day after she said they were just friends, the day which they announced their relationship to the world.
They've been in that relationship for a year now, and they've had good times and bad. I feel I would trweat her better than he does. One thing though - there is someone else who seems madly in love with her, and she says it had ruined their friendship. I don't know whether to tell her or not, or wait... She has also said that if she weren't in a relationship, she would probably be with him. As far as I can tell, she has shown no interest in me, or knowledge of my feelings, but she has done certain things like 'snuggling' up to me once or twice, and other such things.
I still go on group nights out while she's there and it really eating me up inside. Please help.
what can i do to help my self-harming friend?
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17/10/2011 : my friend has shown me how she self harms herself, i have spoken to her and she says she can control it, she's agreed to stop but im worried if she does it again she wont tell me.. i want to help her, but she wont tell her mum or anyone else, is there anything else i can do?
Am I falling out of love?
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22/10/2011 : My boyfriend of 4 years/baby daddy is spending a lot of money on certain unmentionables. I am always upset when he leaves and when he comes home... I don't know how I feel about him anymore. But I don't want to be alone. Am I still in love with him, and just feelin sorry for myself? Or am I really just not in love anymore. Because for one, i dont feel happy anymore..it seems like he's not making me happy anymore. Thank you. Anonymousgurl.
How can I fall for someone else, when I just got married 5 months ago?
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25/10/2011 : My husband and I have been together for almost 7 years but were just married this June. I've never thought about or even looked at another man before. He was all I needed. But I met someone. Someone I work with. And I can't stop thinking about him or what it would be like to just sit and spend time with him. Hear him laugh. I know I'm betraying my husband just having these thoughts. The other guy has told me that he is into me to but holds back because he knows I'm married. We used to talk as friends but when we both realized there was more to it, we cut our friendship off and I'm sad and I miss him.
I just don't know how this could happen. Does it mean I should leave my husband? Not to be with this other guy, but because I can even feel for someone else? Does it mean that I'm not happy or that I'm no longer in love?
ive liked this boy for over a year, ive never spoke to him in real life,though he goes to my shcool, he doesnt know i like him what should i do?
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31/10/2011 : hes in the year above me, in my school, we smile at eachother when we see each other but we would never talk, we have so much in common and we laugh at everything.
I want to know if I'm still in love my boyfriend seems to watch porn and is more obsessed with being on the internet and spend time with me?
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31/10/2011 : me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years in the beginning of our relationship we had sex constantly and he was never watching porn we were crazy over each other. we've had 2 children since then and most recently he seems to be watching porn everyday turnstiles zack and even has issues keeping his junk hard for finishing sex with me. he's even made cooments like "what happened to you" after talking about being more fit before having my first child, commencing that I still look pregnant at times- it seems innocent but I think he is obsessed with porn and has lost interest in me.
.. I think I've lost my feelings for him because I am no longer attracted to him or it feels as if it is that way... I feel angry that he watches porn when I am willing to do whatever whenever I am a very horny person... sometimes chili's in watch porn after we had sex... I don't think I'll ever be able to get over this, I feel like if a guy is attracted to me and enjoy sleeping with me he wouldn't have to watch porn everyday or rarely at all...