December 2011
how do i stop thinking about him?
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01/12/2011 : i'm 16 and will be answering my board exams in a few months. recently i met this parent at school, who apperently is divorced....and he has a 9 yr old son. my friends tell me that he lusts me and i cant stop thinking about him...i think he knows how i feel about him but he's like twice my age... i cant concentrate on my studies...and i need serious help...pleaassssseeeee.... thank you...
Should I forgive my dad who clearly doesnt care about me?
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06/12/2011 : My mum and dad have been split up ever since i was really really young. I used to see him probably once every 2 months however last year we got really close to the point where i was seeing him every week, but then my sister and him had a stupid argument around june 2010 because he stopped seeing us quite so much but then he completely stopped speaking to us. In september he then stopped my child benefits and claimed that he wasnt working even though we knew that he was because of facebook. I text him at christmas but got no reply.
He text me once around jan / feb but i said i couldnt forgive him quite yet but then he stopped speaking again. In november he contacted me through the internet simply saying "hi" then when i asked why he hadnt spoken to me for almost a year and a half he started having a go at me saying it was the second time he had tried to speak to me and the second time i had let him down. I cant bring myself to forgive him and although i hate him, i really do miss having a dad. My mum is really supportive and almost acts as my dad aswell but i can tell that if i was ever to forgive him it would hurt her because of the amount she has given up for me and the effort she has put in raising me by herself.
Am i wrong to not forgive him? please help :(
What should i do about him?
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14/12/2011 : There's this boy in my year at school. I've fancied him for a while now but he has a girlfriend who is my best friend. I dont know him that well. My friend went to speak to him about it and he found out i liked him! Everyones talking about it now and i'm finding it hard. I still like him. He told one of my mates that he liked me and then to another one of them that he didnt. I'm scared to face him at school because i know it will be arkward and i still want to be friends. What should i do?