February 2011
what is the best advice to deal with a boyfriend who runs at first sign of trouble?
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02/02/2011 : a lot of the time when my boyfriend hears something a say about him or his actions he gets extremely defensive and heads back to his flat.this has happened fpr the past 3 years and we have split up several times because of it.we love each other but are we wasting our time?
I fancy one of my girlfriends best friends
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05/02/2011 : Last year my girlfriend became really good friends with someone and now we're both friends with her and her boyfriend. We see alot more of her than him, she stays over at our place sometimes in the week because of work. The problem is that I find myself really attracted to her, like I get slight butterflies when I know shes comming over or if we're all going out together I get really excited! All 4 of us are going on holiday to Spain in March and I don't know how to control these feelings! I'm kind of hoping it will pass or I'll find out something awful about her and it will put me off her- but unlikely because she's a really nice girl.
.. whats the best thing to do?? I've thought about it the other way round and I think I'd rather not know- but my girlfriend is very astute and has already made a couple of passing comments, but more about her possibly liking me.. I think it's a bit of reverse psychology, luckily one skill I do have is to change the subject or defelect questions from her quite well but I can't do this forever... any ideas??
Am I going through a phase or have I fallen out of love?
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06/02/2011 : I was thinking about putting this in teen seeing as me and my bf have been together for 7 months and we're both 18. Anyway what it is, when we got together I was really attracted to him, now I don't really notice how he looks or get butterflies when he's around or anything. He is really incredibly sweet and we always have a good time and get on really well. We see each other most days too. Is it normal to feel like this now, just cause the original adrenaline rush of fancying someone is over? Or is this a big problem that I don't feel how I did a couple of months ago? help D:
How wet should I be?
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11/02/2011 : I'm getting really wet and my clit starts throbing/tingling throughout most of my day. Mostly this happens if I’m day-dreaming about sex but sometimes it just happens for no reason. At first I enjoyed feeling wet and tingly all the time but now it’s turned into a nightmare. The main problem is sometimes there is so much wetness that it soaks all the way through my panties and starts to get my trousers wet. I’ve been wearing a thong or a skirt before and the discharge has dribbled down the inside of my legs as I’m walking about.
Another time I was sitting on a chair in a skirt in a way so that my panties were resting directly on the seat and when I got up from the chair it was wet where I had been sitting. This is just horrid when I'm at school, people have noticed before teased me about it. I’m really embarrassed. Most days I end up having to go to the bathroom a lot just to wipe myself. I’m thinking of bringing extra panties to school to change, but I don’t know what to do with the wet ones. I tried wearing no panties with a pleated skirt, hoping that the extra air would dry things out down there a bit but again the discharge just ended up dribbling down my legs.
It doesn't smell or anything so I don’t think it’s an infection. I’m too embarrassed to go to the doctors but I’m worried there is something wrong with me. Is there? should I be this wet all the time?
How can I stop being friends with someone, without having to tell them. In other words, how can I imply it without being hurtful?
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13/02/2011 : There's someone who is friends with me, well sort of. Anyway at my school we have different lunches. On one of those days, she comes to sits with my friends, but the thing is I just want to sit with my friends. It's getting old (i don't mean to sound rude at all) and I just want to hang out with friends I want to hang out with. I can not tell someone that I do not want them hanging around me. I wish there was a way to imply it without having to say it nor look mean. Please help!
How can I get over my ex?
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13/02/2011 : I'm pretty sure this one of the most commonly asked questions and I know I'm not the first person to go through it, but what's the best way to deal with a break up? My ex broke up with me about 3 months ago, at first it was horrible (as it always is). We were together for 10 months and I really thought it was serious and that we'd be together for years to come, but he decided we needed time apart. He made it a difficult break because at first he meant it as a break, and then told me we split up so I wouldn't be disappointed in case we didn't get back together, then he flirted a lot with another girl for a while which hurt like hell and then told me he didn't love me anymore.
At the moment we're not speaking and avoid eachother all the time. My friends and family have helped out loads and a lot of days I feel fine where I barely think about him, but anything that reminds me of him and I get really upset and down again. What should I do? I want to stop feeling for him and don't know whether to let the feelings fade over time or whether I should start looking for a new relationship myself.
is there any true friend to share my happiness n sorrow?
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15/02/2011 : because i want to break up my loneliness
Should I go out with my best mates ex?
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18/02/2011 : Well recently, i met my best mates ex at his birthday party and we hit it off quite well. We had a lot of banter and it was a very fun night, after we started chatting over facebook and things went well and now we've met up and then confessed that we like each other. But obviously with her being my best mates ex i dunno what to do. I really like her but i don't want my mate to just hate me and never speak to me again. Apparently he still loves her as well, which has made me even more reluctant to say anything.
Has anyone been in my best mates situation where a friend asked how you felt if they went out with your ex? How'd it go? I just don't know what to do. It feels stupid to not do anything when we know we like each other and it could work, but then i don't wanna lose him as a friend either. Is it selfish to wanna go out with her and be happy and yet have my mate totally alright with it so nothing changes?
What do I do? I have to support a ten year old and pay rent etc!!
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23/02/2011 : I have been sworn at frequently. Embarrassed in front of clients. I have had articles thrown at me. My wrists held in restraint to stop me from walking. My son who used to go to work with me in holidays will no longer come with me because my boss humiliated and swore at him. now my son will no longer come to work with me I have to leave him at home alone all day. My appearance is constantly spoken about and the fact that he would never have employed me if he knew i was going to put on so much weight.
That i have put on 4 F******* dress sizes and no longer wear short skirts etc. Then my boss instigated an out of hours call service for which he then made my company mobile the number of contact. So I have to be available 24/7 night, day, all the time. I am on holiday at present and have left the mobile with a newly appointed collegue, who taken on to cover me for holidays and sickness. Yet at 10.45 pm Saturday my boss rang around for my telephone number and sent a text message to the mobile stating if I was up and not f****** P*ss*d to get in touch with him.
I was appointed a position as a receptionist and packer. I am not a P.A. I was promised las year a pay rise and to be trained up as manager yet a mistake in accounts meant that I got a bonus the first year and this year last years error became a pay rise therefore making his verbal promise rubbish because although my work load as increased immensley and extra duties added as well I am a year behind in pay. My concern is that I cannot sleep any more I get up constantly through out the night. When I do sleep my son wakes me because I am screaming and crying out in my sleep.
There as been so many incidents directed at myself from my boss, inuendo, embarrassing comments and even him biting my finger. I cannot cope any longer. I have emails that he as sent staing that I am the office bull dog,a bitch etc etc. If I walk away will I be entitled to any benefits whilst I find another job? is it illegal for me to leave my ten year old son home alone?
Do I still love my boyfriend?
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27/02/2011 : We've been together for 3 years, I'm 21 and he's 22. Like a month ago we talked about marriage and we agreed that we want to get marry, the difference its that he told me he'll do it when he turned 35, I told him i didnt expected to be his girlfriend for 16 years! and seems we have a totally different point of view of what marriage is... since then I've been thinking that he might be too inmature for me, of course I dont want to get marry right now, not even in 3 years, but now I dont want to waste my time with someone that doesnt share my expectations of the future, and I dont know how I feel about him now.
..I think Im dont love him anymore, but I know Im now afraid to accept that this feeling might be real