April 2011
acess to child
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02/04/2011 : my son is in prison , social services have stoped his visits nw , due to a child plan, how does he stand ?
Too many excuses for horrible behaviour
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02/04/2011 : I'm 19, I go to university and I'm the second oldest of 3 siblings. I'm male and although I get along with my older sister I'm really starting to hate my little sister. First of all, my little sister is allergic to gluten and she has post viral fatigue. I realise how frustrating this can be for her, but she lashes out at people, particularly my suffering mother who works hard for her, all the time. She even criticised the idea of celebrities doing charity just because of the fact that they have more resources to do so.
Secondly, she NEVER listens to anybody else's opinions. Once she gets in a mood it doesn't matter what you say. It will either be interpretted as an unfair and direct challenge to her (even if it's just your personal opinion and it contrasts with hers) but she will start shouting about it. If someone, god forbid, takes your side, she will scream and go to her room. Thirdly, she is completely oblivious to how her actions hurt people who are trying to help her, particularly my mum who has been a saint in trying to care for her.
Once, I asked her to calm down and she simply responded by yelling 'I HAVE A RIGHT TO BE UPSET' and slamming the door in my face. This was whilst my mum was nearly in tears. Just to clarify, in this example my mother and I were mediators - the 'offender' wasn't around yet my sister still took it upon herself to yell at us. She does this with virtually no tact. At one point my sister's new boyfriend was visiting for the first time and she still made a fiasco of things. It really doesn't matter if she's wrong or right.
This is really giving me issues of anger. It frustrates me greatly and at times I'll just feel this inward facing hatred and pressue which I don't know what to do with. I'm seeking counselling over these feelings but I just cannot stand the way she treats people, especially my mum. Again, I realise the effect that her illness is having. Also, she isn't a small child - she's 16. She just spends so much time laying into people who have been trying to help her. I literally cannot stand her most of the time and sometimes I hesitate to come home from UNI when I get the chance.
Sometimes I just think someone should gag her so she can hear what everyone else thinks of her behaviour. Does anyone have any advice on approaching her or dealing with this anger?
He's moving away this summer, what do i do?
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08/04/2011 : After getting dumped, I wanted to get my life back. I had this guy friend that I kinda talked to. We talked more, got that bus home from school with some others. From quite a few months ago, i had a little bit in me saying that i was starting to like him more. We became quite close, i could talk to him about almost everything. Sometimes we got the bus, just the two of us. I noticed that he seemed to trust me, tell me things that he wouldn't tell to a friend hes known since primary school. The past few months we have got really close, my fav part of the day for a while has been after school, getting the bus home with him.
Around the start of Feb we became really close. It was about a week into feb when I started to realise more about my feelings for him. Walking into town, I would find my mind wandering to him, hoping to bump into him. I admitted my feelings to one of my bestfriends the day after my birthday (Feb 3), it was kinda the first time admitting it to myself. I decided to do something about it so i sent him just a heart icon. He replied with something about ' i (heart) you too (in a friendship kinda way).
We started messaging each other more and that. It was all very easy, simple, as we ere close friends. He admitted that he did have feelings for me. We were really happy to have kinda found each other. He said i made him really happy. we went on for almost a week, knowing of our feelings and my friends kept asking me 'are you two going out now/yet?' :) 12 Feb we made it well, official. I was so happy, he makes me so happy. compared to my last relationship its amazingly great, its so much easier to handle (my ex has depression issues) im enjoying everything.
One bad thing is though he is having to move to germany next year, to live. He is getting some apprenticeship thing over there. I know hes torn about it. I don't think we can do anything about it, but i don't know what to do. He leaves june/july time. its only a few months away. I dont know how i will deal with it, as i really think i love him. he makes my day the best. i never stop smiling. i dont want to lose him. he means the world to me, hes so special. how do i deal with it? what do i do?
I hate seeing my ex with someone else?!
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08/04/2011 : My ex dumped me back in august. i was heart-broken. he then went and asked out his ex and hurt one of his friends as well. I have mostly moved on and am now in a relationship with one of my good friends, we are happy together. my ex saw my friend hugging me (when he was just my friend few months ago) and he got jealous, told me he half wanted to kill my friend because he had his grubby little hands on me and spread rumours that me and my friend were going out. Wel now i am going out with that friend, it all happened seperate from that situation.
my ex has told me that he still misses me, he remebers everything that was important and if he could go back to last summer he would. then he was saying i dont know what i want and what if i want you. then got cuirous about what me and my boyfriend had done and was asking if it was the same. now hes got a new girlfriend and i feel like im getting jealous, i dont like seeing her with him. im glad hes happy but its making me down. i feel like im just stuck. its like ive lost everyone almost, my ex(was my best friend at one point), some mates and im gonna lose my boyfriend cuz hes moving to germany in a few months.
i told my ex im happy for him and that im sorry for breaking his heart (though i didnt) and he says that im lieing and that he doesnt care. i dont know what to do. i hate seeing them together. should i be torturing myself like i am? should i feel like this?
my jack russell has rejected her pups, help
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16/04/2011 : my jack russell has rejected her puppies that she has had tonight, she wouldnt do anything with them, i had to rub them and get them out of there sacks when they was born as she just walked away and left them and wouldnt go near them at all, she is 3 years old and she never had any problems with giveing birth, i'm going to take her to the vets first thing in the morning but i'm really scared that i'm going to loose the pups, as i know i will have to bottle feed them and i'v never done it b4, i dont have alot of money as she had them a few days b4 i get paid so i'v got to make do with what i'v got, i can get the bottles and milk from vet and thats it, please help
I dumped married man and now he's back and is rejecting ME.
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18/04/2011 : Please help. I was involved with a married man for 2 and a half years, and it was obvious he wanted me just as emotional support (not even sex as we live 200 miles apart and last saw each other 9 months ago). Only this last week have I gained the strength and insight in order to distance myself and end the 'relationship' (he still insisted we were 'together' and very jealous of my nights out with friends). I was really proud of myself for my strength and really at peace with my decision. But the very next day, his wife had a serious motorbike accident.
He texted to tell me and I immediately offered him my support as a friend, for which he was grateful. However, since then, my texts asking how things are have gone ignored and unanswered, and I am in a maelstrom of anger and frustration. I had had the strength to move on and now I feel reeled back in, only for ME to be rejected. I can't cope with the feelings that I have. What on earth am I to do?
What should I do about the girl I like?
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21/04/2011 : A couple of months ago, I had a friend ask the girl I like about her interest in me. The girl said no, and I was fine with that at first. But then I got to thinking about it, and I figured that there must be something that made her say no. I also feel like I handled it the wrong way by not asking her myself from the start, and that put me in a hole. So, I want to ask her directly about it and tell her how I feel. However, things have been a little weird between us and we aren't talking as much as we used to.
How can I ask her without it being so weird?
How Long Is A Moment?
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30/04/2011 : just wandering how long a moment is
im a virgin. whats my next step ??
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30/04/2011 : i need desperate help people i havent had sex once what should i doooo ?
im so dam lonely .
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30/04/2011 : ok get this im a lonely cow and no menn want me. how do i get rid of the tension and get married?