July 2010
how do i get out of a bad relationship?
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02/07/2010 : i have been in a relationship for 2months now befor that my partner and i had a break for a year i think hes stealing money from me every month and i cant confront him about it because he doesnt want to be proven wrong how do i break up from this relationship without an argument
is my hubby cheating on me or bored with me?
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03/07/2010 : we have been in a relationship for almost 10 years.he is divorced from his 1st wife but they have 2kids.until now he was happy to see his kids 4/5 times a year (cause we live more than 1000 knm apart} now he blames me for not seeing them and demands to see them more often,this is impossible cause his job will be affected.we also share a son of 8 years old who he says he sees every day after work,so he considers our son lucky compareded to his other 2 kids. recently when he visited his kids,on his return i found a picture of a woman in his wallet(not his x) he told me it was an old friend,this old friend lives in the same town as his kids!!!!he has since moved out of our home but visits daily to see our son,i have tried to reason with him but he is so insistant he visits his old family every two months,i do not agree ,if he gets his own way we will never have time for our own family hols!!!! can someone tell me please is he likely to be cheating on me
How can I make my fiances family like me?
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03/07/2010 : I met my fiance a year ago when i was staying with a friend in London. We fell in love and have been almost inseparable since. I am a 25 year old primary school teacher and he is a 30 year old lawyer. Although we get on great we both have very different families. My parents divorced when I was 4 and both remarried.I dont get on with my elder brother as he stole from my dad and has done many other awful things. My step sister is married to a man who has been arrested countless times for assualt and mostly theft.
My boyfriends parents have been married for 35 years, he gets on well with both his siblings who both are married and have successful careers. His mum has never liked me and highly disapproves of my family. This became apparent when I invited his family to our house for a meal. I spent hours cooking their favourite foods and wanted everything to be perfect. However during the meal his mother made several remarks about my family saying how awful it was that they got divorced and that they obviously never loved each other, she then went on to insult my education (i went to a public school whereas my fiance went to a private school, my brother for being gay and my career by saying that i obviously wasn't that intelligent or I wouldn't be working in a primary school.
My fiance lost his temper and told her that if she didn't like me then she shouldn't have come. She then started to shout at me calling me a gold digging whore and saying i was only with my fiance for his mone before she walked out. I was very upset and my fiance has refused to talk to her since. I am trying to convince my fiance to make up with her as I know he loves her very much and I just want him to be happy. I love my family very much (including my step-parents) but I want his family to like me as well and want them to be involved in our life.
How do I get his mum to see that I love my fiance and don't care about his money?
How Can i Get a good accommodation facility and job , If i come in dundee college on study permit.
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04/07/2010 : i want to come in dundee college of Scotland but i am very tense about the accommodation and job for the rest of my fees. i am international student [Indian]. how can i find the Job and place of accommodation.??? reply as soon as possible
How do i get over my ex, should i get over my ex?
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05/07/2010 : I still haven't gotten over my ex-girlfriend. Actually she is probably my ex ex ex by now, but anyway, it's been two years and I still believe she was the one for me. However, when i look back and remember why I broke up with her, which was because i thought she was cheating, I'm reminded of the ill feeling i used to get. Before the ill feelings though it was golden. Am i being a chump by holding on or should i still hold on?
i have been married for 20 yrs. my husband admits cheating on me by having sex with a prostitute. He also has accused me of cheating.This is very hurtful as i have been faithful to him. He also has an addiction for chatlines
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09/07/2010 : should i stay with him
I should think about my friend problem and should give best answer for him. By improving our self confidence we can remove shyness at parties.
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12/07/2010 : I want to get success in my life through learning and study. But,when I try to learn and read some thing I can't do this and why I don't know.Every day I take some oath for me like our carrier,life .At the end of the I had zero response. So I want know to that person, who really work hard in study and carrier. How they do like this. I want to ask some question. How they create strong willpower for getting success in any work.
How do I bring the fun and closeness back into the relationship?
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13/07/2010 : I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 months, and it seems like we have nothing to talk about or do anymore. We used to be really close and constantly talking and laughing with each other, we were best friends, and the time went by so fast. He's a bit of a stoner so we used to smoke together sometimes and it was a lot of fun but we also spent a lot of time sober which was just as fun. Lately I find we've been smoking together a lot just so we feel close again, things are back to normal when we're high, but when we're sober we spent a lot of time watching TV in silence when we used to talk all the time.
We both acknowledged this change in behavior and how we both still love each other and do not want to break up. We see each other almost everyday during the summer when we only used to see each other 2-3 times a week, so I think we may have just run out of things to talk about. What can we do to make things better?
Is it illegal to have sex with your step sister?
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16/07/2010 : Our parents got married 6 months ago after only knowing each other for a few months. The second I was introduced to her my first thought was that she was stunning. She has long red hair bright blue eyes and is 16. When our parents went on their honeymoon we were left alone together for 2 weeks. Originally we didn't interact too much but when my mum told us over the phone that she was pregnant we decided to celebrate. After a few drinks I kissed her and she responded, I then gave her oral sex. After that night nothing happened for days as we were both avoiding eachother.
But then she came into my room when i was getting changed and said that she owed me. She then gave me a bj and we had sex. Ever since then we have been having sex at every oppurtunity! I am addicted to her and when we have sex it's amazing. She wears sexy underwear and outfits and every time we get a little more adventurous. However we both worry about what our parents would say if they found out and she is worried what we are doing is illegal. Is it illegal as we are not actually blood related we are related by marriage?
What do I do about these penis issues?
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18/07/2010 : Hey there, let me start by first telling you I wanted to post this in a Health category, but there isn't one... I have a few questions concerning the important organ of every man, so I'd like honest answers and no mockery, please -) I am 19 and have not been circumsized. All my life I've thought I have phimosis, which, among other things, has prevented me from entering relationships for fear of not being able to have proper sex. I knew I had to do something about it, though I must say walking stripped in front of a total stranger, be it a doctor or even Jesus Himself, just doesn't seem right to me.
.. Seeing a visit to an urologist as the very last resort, to be used only in indispensable need, I started to research the Internet on the issue. I learned that much can be accomplished through manual stretching of the foreskin, so I started doing this every day. Not seeing much progress, I decided I'd go as far with it as I could, taking pain as a signal to stop. To my astonishment (and huge relief, too) with a bit of effort (though no pain whatsoever) I managed to retract my foreskin to fully liberate the glans.
Here is my first question: is there a way to stretch the foreskin so that it does not take so long a way to "get it ready"? Another issue is that the newly-exposed glans is very sensitive to touch, way too sensitive, I'd say... Can I desensitize it somehow, so that a touch to it brings pleasure instead of discomfort? Another issue is that, as I reach an orgasm (or rather, ejaculate), for a brief moment I experience a feeling of extreme tightness in the glans, as though it wants to "pop out" of the penis.
.. I figured this could be a case of frenulum breve then, only... wouldn't a short frenulum pull the glans more towards itself? Mine doesn't, rather quite the opposite... Last issue: as the foreskin won't fully retract by itself, likewise it won't return to its normal position after the penis goes flacid... I can do it manually, though, and it's all back to normal after a short while... Still, I'd rather that it would do it more on its own accord, but then... I guess it will look up together with the first issue.
.. OK, that would be about it. Sorry for the wordiness, can't speak my mind tersely for my life... Thanks for any advice, I hope you'll be helpful!
How do I save my relationship?
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21/07/2010 : I have recently made a huge mistake with my girlfriend. We have only been dating for two months, but within that time I fell in love. Things moved really fast in the first month we were hanging out everyday and nothing was forced, everything progressed naturally. I've never felt such a strong connection with anyone else as I felt with her and I started getting ahead of myself. I became so focused on how I was feeling that I didn't consider her feelings. She told me that she can see herself with me, but it was too early for her to say those 3 words.
That was when the negative thoughts started to develop in my mind. I started thinking, how could I feel this way and she doesn't and if she doesn't feel this way yet, will she ever? I started psyching myself out. My impatience took over and I unknowingly started pressuring her. Then finally last week I told her that I just don't feel like she can give herself fully to this relationship. Now that I think about it, everything she did was perfect, it was just I was use to the fast pace and when it slowed down I thought she was becoming less interested.
I realize that everything that has happened is my fault and I created problems that weren't there. Now she has asked for some space and she thinks that she's not ready for a relationship and that she has to figure things out. She still texts me and asks me how I'm doing. She still tells me news that excites her. She asked me out for coffee yesterday and we had a good chat. Either of us did not bring up what's been going on. I wasn't going to mention anything I truly believe we have something that doesn't come often and I'm just hoping I haven't done permanent damage.
I just want to know if I have a chance to save things. World, what are your thoughts?
Have I sabotaged my relationship beyond the point of repair?
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21/07/2010 : I have recently made a huge mistake with my girlfriend. We have only been dating for two months, but within that time I fell in love. Things moved really fast in the first month we were hanging out everyday and nothing was forced, everything progressed naturally. I've never felt such a strong connection with anyone else as I felt with her and I started getting ahead of myself. I became so focused on how I was feeling that I didn't consider her feelings. She told me that she can see herself with me, but it was too early for her to say those 3 words.
That was when the negative thoughts started to develop in my mind. I started thinking, how could I feel this way and she doesn't and if she doesn't feel this way yet, will she ever? I started psyching myself out. My impatience took over and I unknowingly started pressuring her. Then finally last week I told her that I just don't feel like she can give herself fully to this relationship. Now that I think about it, everything she did was perfect, it was just I was use to the fast pace and when it slowed down I thought she was becoming less interested.
I realize that everything that has happened is my fault and I created problems that weren't there. Now she has asked for some space and she thinks that she's not ready for a relationship and that she has to figure things out. She still texts me and asks me how I'm doing. She still tells me news that excites her. She asked me out for coffee yesterday and we had a good chat. Either of us did not bring up what's been going on. I wasn't going to mention anything I truly believe we have something that doesn't come often and I'm just hoping I haven't done permanent damage.
I just want to know if I have a chance to save things. World, what are your thoughts?
I think I sabotaged my relationship. Am I still able to salvage it?
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21/07/2010 : I have recently made a huge mistake with my girlfriend. We have only been dating for two months, but within that time I fell in love. Things moved really fast in the first month we were hanging out everyday and nothing was forced, everything progressed naturally. I've never felt such a strong connection with anyone else as I felt with her and I started getting ahead of myself. I became so focused on how I was feeling that I didn't consider her feelings. She told me that she can see herself with me, but it was too early for her to say those 3 words.
That was when the negative thoughts started to develop in my mind. I started thinking, how could I feel this way and she doesn't and if she doesn't feel this way yet, will she ever? I started psyching myself out. My impatience took over and I unknowingly started pressuring her. Then finally last week I told her that I just don't feel like she can give herself fully to this relationship. Now that I think about it, everything she did was perfect, it was just I was use to the fast pace and when it slowed down I thought she was becoming less interested.
I realize that everything that has happened is my fault and I created problems that weren't there. Now she has asked for some space and she thinks that she's not ready for a relationship and that she has to figure things out. She still texts me and asks me how I'm doing. She still tells me news that excites her. She asked me out for coffee yesterday and we had a good chat. Either of us did not bring up what's been going on. I wasn't going to mention anything I truly believe we have something that doesn't come often and I'm just hoping I haven't done permanent damage.
I just want to know if I have a chance to save things. World, what are your thoughts?
The morning after pill has made me feel really ill, what should i do?
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22/07/2010 : Since taking the Morning After pill 20hours after having unprotected sex, i began to feel really dizzy, sick and i had bad pains in my abdominal area.. For three days straight i have had an upset stomach and still feeling sick, dizzy, tired and just not myself. The doctor told me to come back if i threw up but i haven't so i'm not sure whether to go back.. i swear its not possible for me to be pregnant :\
can my sons dad get any sort of visits with a criminal record of affray?
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23/07/2010 : my ex boyfriend is starting to get funny with me about having our son over night. now my son is only 2 and is still very clingy to me and he sometimes wakes up at night and only wants me which is why i dont want his dad to have him over night yet now is dad is saying that he is going to cab. his dad has got a previous conviction of affray and i was wondering would he get any rights with that connviction.
how do i support my unborn baby and how do i tell my mum???
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28/07/2010 : I am 17 and have been with my parnter for over 3 years now. I have just found out I am pregnant though. I am happy about the pregnacy and so is my partner but there are so many problems to come from this. I am worried about how to tell my mum as I know she will have no choice but to kick me out, not because she wants to simply just because shes just had her baby herself and there will be no room. I am also unemployed and have no idea how to support my self I still feel im tied to my mums apron strings.
My parnter has finished his college corse and started an appretership which is really good because he's another step closer to becoming a contractor but thats not going to be anough financally to look after a baby and put a roof over our heads. what should i do and how can I take controll of this situation. please reply soon I really need help before I tell any one and im already starting to show!