August 2009
My dog
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06/08/2009 : i hate my dog maisy soo much but my boyfriend loves her, i kick her and smack her head off walls when she looks at me.. she ate my bag of weed and ever since then i hate her, my boyfriend is starting to notice lumps on her head and is asking questions can anyone help me ??? what shall i do? i was thinking of ing her off our balcony 8 storys up and tell my bf she jumped???????? plz a bit of advice
Should I continue this relationship
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11/08/2009 : Am inlove with this young lady. But she cofuses me. I've seen love text by other boys in her phone but when i ask her she denied. Moreover i learnt she has given birth to a baby in her younger age. Eventhough i love but is obvious i can't help matters and my self. Please should i continue loving her or quit?
Don't believe the father
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19/08/2009 : My husband and i have been married for 5 years and have a beautiful son together although 9 months ago i walked out on him taking our son with me. The marriage had been rocky for the past few years, although the final straw was he came home blind drunk at 7am after a night on the lash and became verbally abusive with me, backing me into a corner.(he'd turned his phone off as usual)even though he was supposed to be looking after our child the next day and i had to explain to my employer that i couldn't come into work as my hubby was too drunk to leave our child with!! This wasn't the first time he had done this, it has been the same througout most of the marriage.
He spent all the money i had saved for our child's christmas presents on stuff for himself (i had to hide it from him but he found it an blew it). He put me down throught our marriage in front of people, he got us into so much debt by lying about paying the bills and spending all our earnings and when i finally plucked up the courage to walk out he harrased me so much i ended up losing nearly 2 stone and was referred to counselling for depression. It has since calmed down between us and he has been a good father and seen our son when he can.
He gradually conviced me that he is a changed man and i agreed to see how things went and try to make a go of our marriage. I have so many doubts, i just don't know where to turn. i can't talk to my family or friends as they all hate him for what he has put me and my son through and if they thought we were tring again they would be so dissapointed. I haven't moved back in with him, although he is putting more and more pressure on me to do so. i just have this feeling that as soon as we go back i will be that prisoner again! not able to be myself and worried that i can't afford to buy clothes for my son because he's spent all our money! I don't know whether it is because he has controlled me for 5 yrs that i don't have the confidence without him.
One side of me still loves him, he is the man i married and the father of my child and we do have loving fun times together. the other side of me can't stand him or the thought of even kissing him. What should i do? please help?