August 2010
How can i improve my self.
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01/08/2010 : I'm not well educated after that I have good job. what can I do for getting higher job. I know I will have to do study.But there is no way of study. Firstly if I start study again for this I don't have sharp mind for distance education or free time also. I always make plan for study but when I try to study .I can't do anything. so I want to know How can I do study well same as intelligent person. why can't I do same as other. It means I don't have mind and strong will power. I want advise.
Is a big age gap in a relationship a problem?
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01/08/2010 : I am a young-looking 41 year old male who has recently started dating a 26 year old girl. She is an intelligent university educated, emotionally strong and independent lady. She chatted me up initially and I made clear my age from the outset. She says the age gap isn't a problem for her but I worry that we are at different stages in our lives and I don't want to hold her back from enjoying her twenties and maybe going travelling before she has any ties. I am looking for a long-term relationship and am wondering whether there is a genuine chance of this with her when our ages are so far apart.
Advice please!
Marriage Split after 9 months
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04/08/2010 : Hello About two months ago my wife of just nine months announced she was leaving, we had just moved into the house we had brought. We had been together for over nine years before this. She has left most of her stuff and her daughters, but has taken a rented flat and moved in. She has not stated it is over and when I ask she says she doesn't know. However, she has not contacted me at all since she left but has sometimes responded when I tried to talk to her although she never really wants to talk about the relationship.
I know if I didn't try to contact her she would most likely never speak to me again. I know that some will say just move on but the behaviour is unlike her and she has even left her pets here, it is almost as if she has run away from everything that was her life with me. I am trying to be as considerate as I can be although am very upset by all this. When I spoke to her the other week and asked what she had been up to she jumped down my throat and said she would be better if she didn't have me probing what she was doing, it was just a general question.
In short, I love her and still think that if she tried we could work things out. Am I being to soft, should I not speak to her and see, should I keep contacting her. Please anyone, I am at a loss as to what to do anymore
I don't know what to talk about with people. Topics that could help?
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10/08/2010 : I don't know what to talk about with peopple i don't know for my entire life. I have a big problem with that and people think that i don't want to talk to them. What sould I do?
what should i do i m unable to marry my love coz of very bad circumstances
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11/08/2010 : hi i m 24 years old girl working as a lecturer in a college. i love my college days best friend. we r known to each other from past 7 years. after collg when we were in our own ways we were in still contact with each oter as we were having excellent mental compatability with each other some time ago we both realise that our friendshio now smoothly turned out in love. we both love each other and everythng was gng out very smooth . he nd me we both want to be each other's for whole life. but the problem is that my family is quite orthodox about the love marriages and the biggest problem is that he is not very established in his career right nw.
so he said to me right nw how can i think about marriage. coz his professional circumstances are very bad nd he said that right nw it is ver difficult for him to take the responsibility of marriage. as he is also of same age nd i knw he is right. but wat should i do my parents are searching match 4 me. nd we both are quite dishappy about this from our hearts. he doesn't say anythng and talk quite less wat should i do.he doesn't communicate much as he knw that i more emotionally attached to him. i love him a lot coz he is such a nice person.
wat should we do
What will I do I love him but were just friends?
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12/08/2010 : He said he love me,and don't want to lose me as a friend,but he doesn't want commitment. We had sex several times but were just friends and were not in relationship, and he said he will not marry me either. what will I do I am in love with him?
Are people jealous of me?
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16/08/2010 : Im an 18 year old girl who has just finished her first year of college. Im writing to you with problem ive seemed to experience my entire life no matter how i act around others. Im not a vain person, im quiet, shy and modest, and when i speak around others i always try to be polite and well mannered, however with some people (girls) i find that they just do not take to me and dislike me. Yesterday i took part in a couple of extra curricular classes, and i found that a couple of the girls were behaving quite oddly around me, looking me up and down, and snickering whenever i contributed as well as not responding to me whenever i tried to make conversation, as if to isolate me from the group and make me bad about myself.
Thing is ive had this problem with a lot of people, its always the same behaviour (looking me up and down, cutting me off or giving me weird looks when i speak as if my opinion means nothing) and whenever i ask my peers why this is, they always come up with the same answer people are jealous of you. I dont know whether to accept this as a fact, people have told me i am pretty, but i dont really consider myself to be good looking or have an amazing personality, im not someone to be jealous of! Anyway this has been happening for a long time with various different people, what am i doing wrong and how can i prevent this? Ive tried not to let this problem get to me, but its difficult when the same thng occurs with people in different social situations, and i do tend to lose confidence when im in groups.
I need some advice and another point of view! Thanks :)
How to know if it's really over?
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17/08/2010 : I wrote a long long text describing my situation, until I realized the question in itself was quite simple: How do you know if it's really over? How do you know if you still love someone, or if you're with them simply because you're used to it? I've been with my guy for 10 years now. A house, no kids. I'm 31. And I'm coming out of a burn-out that lasted 2 years (still on the depression meds). And I'm wondering if we've grown apart, or if it's just a temporary thing... Any insights are appreciated!!
whare can i go cos im homeless and no money?
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19/08/2010 : whare can i go cos im homeless and no money?
im having problems of work which has left me off work with stress and depression, my this information has left my work throught member of staff and now my friends and family know.... is this legal??
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25/08/2010 : well most is explained above
painfull intercourse
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26/08/2010 : I have a huge member which causes discomfort to my girlfriend when we are being intimate. Advice me pleaes
I'm upset how my friend disciplined her children, wondering if I should call children's services?
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29/08/2010 : It’s a bit of a strange one this but the yesterday my friend walloped her two children right in front of me, now I’m wondering whether to call children’s’ services. She’s got two girls, one 11 and other 13. She’s a single mom and each can be a bit of a handful on their own and they sometimes fight but I’ve never heard of anything too bad. Anyway, yesterday we were having a chat and a coffee in her kitchen and there was some screaming coming from the garden.
Obviously we both jumped straight up and we could see the both the girls coming through the back gate, each of them had hold of the other’s hair. I was quite surprised to see them fighting like this but even more surprising was my friend’s response. She grabbed a small wooden paddle out of the kitchen door, steamed over to them, separated them both and said “I told you two what would happen”, told them to grab their knees and walloped their bottoms ...HARD. I was gobsmacked, dumbfounded – I just couldn’t believe what I was seeing! I’m not used to being around violence it was a bit frightening to be honest.
This was not like just a couple of whacks each, I mean she gave them a damn good hidding – those girls are not going to sit comfortable for a week. There's no way I would paddle a 13 yr old like that, 11 year old maybe but at 13, its too much. When she’d finished walloping them and sent them upstairs crying, I was so embarrassed I just made some excuse and quickly left. Maybe it’s nothing, but I can’t stop thinking about those poor girls and whether I should phone children’s services.
It’s only out of loyalty to my friend that I haven’t yet. She phoned earlier but I let it go to answer machine as I’m too embarrassed. I might try and talk to her but I don’t know what to say? she's a few years older than me and I don’t have children, so she might think I’m interfering in something I don’t understand. Sorry about the essay, I don’t know, maybe it’s nothing and I should forget it happened but it's eating me up wondering what to do.
how to have fun without the internet, computer, mobile or tv?
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29/08/2010 : its summer and i am really bored. theres not much to do at my house. i don't get money from my parents that often. all my friends live in different areas that i do and i lost my travel card and have to wait two weeks till i can one. even after i clean the house and help out my parents i still have loads of time left. i spend tons of hours watching tv and on the internet. when i'm not on that i am on the phone. i am a shy person so i don't feel comfortable being around people too much. do you know any fun things that would occupy my days? i am getting kind of sick of watching tv or being on the computer all day.