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what should i do?
19/05/2013 : I have been in a relationship with a guy for 2 years he pursued me whilst married and seeing potentially 2 other woman...anyway cut long story short we fell in love he left his wife (not my asking), he said he'd never loved before asked me to marry him , i found out few months into relationship he had been seeing someone else while I was falling for him ...caused major upset I already knew he was a cheat but I truly felt I was different. We split after 1yr 5 months and he started seeing someone after 2 weeks split after 2 months seen someone else and then made his moves on me telling me we have magic etc etc i believed him and thought we were gona make a proper go of it, he soon changed his mind after a few disagreements , normally over something he said or something he didnt do, anyways we have split again and he wants to be friends but openly admits he doesnt want to be on own and will pursue a replacement (for someone to talk to because he has no friends ) very quickly.
I'm trying to accept that he is all for himself and I deserve better, he looks after his own needs before anyone else- he stayed in a marriage for 20 yrs believing he was doing right by his kids and being a serial cheater for his own happiness disregarding the fact his wife could have been with someone who truly cared - it was offcourse all her fault he cheated - she didnt make him happy - and he couldnt make her happy - thoughts please xx
What should we do?
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20/01/2013 : My mother in law passed away recently leaving the family house and contents to my husband and his sibling. The house has been in the family for decades, and is miles away from where we live,my husband's sibling lives near to the family home. The house is in dire need of updating, they relied on coal to heat the home and storage heaters. We don't have the money to update the house or to buy my husbands sibling out or vice versa , to be honest i don't want to move there as i cant drive, i don't know anyone in the village and it means tearing my family apart as my youngest son is 15 and in his final year at school, he's blatantly said he'd rather live with his dad than move away.
And it also means me giving up my job which i also cannot afford to do. When we went through to check on the house recently my oh said thats the school **** would go to ! Well, i don't think he's heard me when i said i don't think i could uproot and leave my job,or leave my son with his father and leave myself practically destitute whilst he goes off to work leaving me in a house that i feel weird walking into, i still feel like its my mother in laws and really don't feel comfortable there at all now she's gone.
My oh says there isn't any rush to make our minds up yet, i think he's hoping i will warm to moving in there with him. What do we/i do? I can't sleep well at all over it, i love him and i don't want it to come in between us. Any advice would helpful.
How can I work on my anger issues?
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25/07/2012 : Lately it seems as if I'am angry about Everything. I get upset at the smallest things. Its taking a toll on my life. What can I do about this situation? How can channel my anger into positive things?
Am I still in love?
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06/02/2012 : Hello, I'm a 24-year-old gay male and I've been going out with the same man for the past 7 months. My boyfriend, who's 34 years old, is a great guy and at the beginning, I was extremely in love with him. We spent a a month in the same city when we first met and then I left to start a Masters in a city that was two hours away we still managed to see each other every weekend. I came back a month ago to be with him and I'm now taking online classes. However, over the holidays, I started wondering if he were the right guy for me.
The fireworks seem to have disappeared although I still think about him very often, now I wonder if I'm still in love. It stresses me a lot. I also work as a translator, which means that during the day, I work and study from home. As a result, I don't get to see a lot of people. Any advice? How can I know if I'm still in love?
Is this grounds for a break-up?
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06/01/2012 : I love my boyfriend of nearly two years. We are each other's first 'real' relationship, and we've gone through a lot together. However, I've been questioning my motives to continue dating him in the past month or so. I feel as though our mental connection is not strong - perhaps it never was, but we glazed over that. Now, however, as I reach for my goals in life and he reaches for his, I can't believe how different we are. I am motivated intellectually, and him, with physical challenges. I don't feel as though he is 'the one', but I don't know if that's just because the butterflies are gone.
If I'm not in it full heartedly, it doesn't seem fair to either of us. But I love him so much. Even with that in mind, I've been feeling depressed for weeks every time I see/talk to him because of my indecision. What should I do?
Will she ever love me? What shall I do?
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08/11/2011 : I'm 17 years old and currently single. I met a girl this Spring and we started speaking a lot, we became quite close and I started to like her. She was in complicated relationship because her and her boyfriend kept breaking up, but they split up.
How Long Is A Moment?
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30/04/2011 : just wandering how long a moment is
my jack russell has rejected her pups, help
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16/04/2011 : my jack russell has rejected her puppies that she has had tonight, she wouldnt do anything with them, i had to rub them and get them out of there sacks when they was born as she just walked away and left them and wouldnt go near them at all, she is 3 years old and she never had any problems with giveing birth, i'm going to take her to the vets first thing in the morning but i'm really scared that i'm going to loose the pups, as i know i will have to bottle feed them and i'v never done it b4, i dont have alot of money as she had them a few days b4 i get paid so i'v got to make do with what i'v got, i can get the bottles and milk from vet and thats it, please help
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