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can my sons dad get any sort of visits with a criminal record of affray?
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23/07/2010 : my ex boyfriend is starting to get funny with me about having our son over night. now my son is only 2 and is still very clingy to me and he sometimes wakes up at night and only wants me which is why i dont want his dad to have him over night yet now is dad is saying that he is going to cab. his dad has got a previous conviction of affray and i was wondering would he get any rights with that connviction.
Will my previous eating disorder affect my custody battle?
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28/05/2010 : My 9 year old daughter has been taken by my ex boyfriend (her biological father) whilst I was being treated in hospital for my eating disorder, this was an arranged hospital stay and he had agreed to look after her whilst I tried to combat an illness that has haunted me since I was 14 years old after suffering sexual abuse from my step father when I was a child. He then kidnapped her taking her out of school for 3 weeks and kept her in his girlfriends flat miles away from home, we went to court to get an order so that he would have to put her back in school, he has told the judge that I would try to kidnap her and that she is not safe to be with me alone and that I would harm a third party which is all completely untrue, the judge at the time had no police checks or statements, I did not have a Solicitor representing me as he has stopped his maintenance payments and therefore I am getting into arrears with my mortgage so couldnt afford a solictor, he made disgusting and untrue accusations about me to the judge with no evidence to support his comments, he said he would only return her to school if I stayed away which the judge asked me to accept for the time being and ordered her to stay temporarily in his custody until the hearing, allowing me to see her supervised my his mother 2 hours per week in a church hall.
My ex keeps turning up when I arrive with his girlfriend in the car gorping at me and intimidating me, he has no reason to be there as my daughter comes in his mothers car seperately? I have never harmed my daughter, I have self harmed as a result of my eating disorder but not in the past 9 years, I have attempted suicide 3 times in the past 8 years but not in the presence of my daughter who knows nothing of my illness and only when I have been in hospital being treated, my eating disorder has only flared up when I have been in a relationship with him as he is very manipulative and aggressive and he has attacked me on many occasions over the years after drunken nights out with his friends.
My daughter and I have lived alone for the past 5 years with no issues, my ex and I briefly got back together last year for 6 months instigated by him and he very quickly started to mentally and physically abuse me causing me to get ill again which was why I admitted myself into hospital to get cured once and for all. My daughter and I share a loving and healthy bond and do many wonderful things together, my life is driven by her and I go out of my way to make her life active and fun, including taking her to see Connie Fisher as she desires to be an actress when she grows up, we climb mountains together, go horseriding and I have sat for an hour everyday working on her piano skills, my ex has shown little interest in her over the past 5 years even going on holiday the day she was admitted to hospital with phneumonia because he didnt want to lose his money, he has spent little time with her and doesn't ever participate in any activities for her.
When he has had her to stay on a Friday night, he has gone out drinking with his mates leaving her to be looked after by his mother! I am not even allowed to have telephone contact with her, play music with her in case I have any conversations that can't be heard and his girlfriend is collecting her every day from school whilst he is working long hours, he has only been with his girlfriend for 6 months! My daughter seems very distressed when we meet each week, she cries and keeps asking me when she can come home, she seems nervous around his mother and him when they are leaving and looks for their approval when she goes to hug me, I am so concerned about what this is doing to her emotionally.
She has told me that she is happy at school but not happy living with daddy and can't understand why she cant come home to be with me and be where her friends are, her puppy, and all her familiar things that she loves. I have been told that the earliest the custody hearing will be will not be until christmas, that will be a year from the time that he took her away from, I cant bare this any longer, it is so painful, I am being treated like a criminal, I have no criminal record, social services have never been involved with my daughter and myself, I work part-time as a veterinary nurse and dont drink, take drugs etc.
I am not violent or abusive and attend church regularly, I haven't been involved with any other men other than my ex in the past 12 years. I know that my eating disorder has driven me to do some ridiculous things in the past but only to myself and never in the company of my daughter. I have been denied legal aid and have no option but to sell my house in order to raise the thousands of pounds that I am going to need to pay for court hearings and representation but there is no guarantee it well sell in time, to date I have had to represent myself but have only been to court once so far, Pro contact have not yet been able to do an assessment so my daughter has not been seen or spoken to by any professionals which I find very disturbing as it has has now been 5 months since this situation started, I am at my wits end, this is so terrible and I just dont know what to do or what is going to happen, I miss my little girl so badly, if it has made me realise anything it is that I dont need my eating disorder as much as I need her and I have had to learn the hard way, can anyone help me, this is becoming unbearable.
I don't see my son
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29/03/2010 : My wife left me 2 years ago. I have to pay maitenence, loads of it despite teh fact that she has met soemone else and is living with them. Also I never get to see my boy. There is a court order in place for every other weekend bit she simply ignores it. I would have to tkae her back to court which I cannot afford and even then there is no guarantee that things would change. I don't know what to do.
I am worried for my child
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25/03/2010 : My daughter lives with me and sees her Dad on alternate weekends. He is lucky that he sees her that much, he expeosed her to danger a couple of years ago anf the court said he could only have thus amoung of contact. He also has a diagnosis of Bi-Polar Disorder. He is going to court for more contact when he can barely handle the contact he gets now. The other night our daughter came home with writing all over her legs that I could not get off. I know he will put on a good show for the courts and am scaared that they will let him see more of her.
He is not a good influence. What should I do?
Should I go to court?
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02/01/2010 : I split up with my ex 8 months ago. We have 2 children. We had quite a good arrangement at first where we shared the children. Now she has met someone and they seem to be becoming a family and shuttingme out. She does not bring them round when she should etc. Do I have to go to court to sort this or is there a way that does not cost so much money?
What are my rights?
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18/12/2009 : I split rom my partner 18 months ago. We have a son. Christmas did not matter last year as I was away. This year she says I connot see hom on the day. Can I force this in any way or do I have to go to court and get an order?
Do I have to go to court to see my child?
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25/11/2009 : I split from my partner 2 years ago and I went off travelling. We have a 3 year old child, I was out of touch forn the whole 2 years. Since I have got back I have found out that she is living with a man now who treats my son s if he is his. I rang her up she says I have never given her anything and I do not have any rights now. She won't let me see my son as she says it will upset him. How can I get to see my boy so that he does not forget who hid Dad is?
My child does not want to visit her dad?
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09/11/2009 : I have a 6 year old son who I have full custody of. A year ago the courts said he was to see his dad every other weekend. When he goes his dad does not do children things, he take him to the pub or round to his friends house until late. My son finds this stressful and has told me that he does not wan to go. What can I do when the contact is court ordered? Does he have to go even though he does not want to?
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