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How to tell someone you are attracte to them.
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18/08/2008 : I have been hanging out with a friend that is a girl alot often and talking to her alot. We share feelings for a guy-friend of ours and he shares feeling for us. I am begining to ge attracted to her and i want her to know. I am afraid to tell her this because i dont know how she feels and dont wanna loses what i have at all. I just wish she knew how i felt.

Why am I incapable of liking my brother in law's girlfriend?
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23/03/2008 : Last year my husband and I did our best to be supportive of his brother as his 10 year marriage ended. He then embarked on a rather intense relationship with his secretary. She left her husband for him and moved in with him in January. I have never liked her much, she is extremely possessive - touching him and kissing him all the time and I find her immature, a non-entity and annoyingly needy. She is now pregnant and I can't help feeling overwhelmingly angry. We have been trying for a baby for over a year now. I now feel all sorts of negative emotions - anger, jealousy, disappointment, cheated ...... I am 16 years older than her and I feel that I have always tried to be honest, straightforward and loyal yet here's someone that I see as manipulative, shallow and plain dull who just seems to have everything so easy. I lost both my parents and really wanted to have my own family but now it's like someone has just ruined that for me - the thought of being pregnant now seems tainted. This whole thing makes me feel like a really awful person - I should be happy for them but the bottom line is I am not. Am I just being irrationally jealous, do I feel my place in my husband's family is being threatened ...... but most importantly how do I manage these emotions ..... how can I be positive and enthusiastic about something which actually makes me feel sick?

Why am I struggling to deal with my feelings towards my brother in law's girlfriend?
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23/03/2008 : Last year my husband and I did our best to be supportive of his brother as his 10 year marriage ended. He then embarked on a rather intense relationship with his secretary. She left her husband for him and moved in with him in January. I have never liked her much, she is extremely possessive - touching him and kissing him all the time and I find her immature, a non-entity and annoyingly needy. She is now pregnant and I can't help feeling overwhelmingly angry. We have been trying for a baby for over a year now. I now feel all sorts of negative emotions - anger, jealousy, disappointment, cheated ...... I am 16 years older than her and I feel that I have always tried to be honest, straightforward and loyal yet here's someone that I see as manipulative, shallow and plain dull who just seems to have everything so easy. I lost both my parents and really wanted to have my own family but now it's like someone has just ruined that for me - the thought of being pregnant now seems tainted. This whole thing makes me feel like a really awful person - I should be happy for them but the bottom line is I am not. Am I just being irrationally jealous, do I feel my place in my husband's family is being threatened ...... but most importantly how do I manage these emotions ..... how can I be positive and enthusiastic about something which actually makes me feel sick?

I am fed up with my family taking me for granted.
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27/05/2007 : I always do things for them but they never seem to return the favours. Does anyone no what I mean....take...take...take. I am really fed up with it. Does anyone experience the same feelings or is it me?