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Am I just being jealous or is she in the wrong?
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22/01/2012 : I am a freshman in college in my second semester. Last semester I met a girl who I quickly became best friends with. We had just enough common interests and differences that it kept our friendship great. We became very close in those few months and know just about everything about eachother. She has many other friends but she mainly only hangs out with me. One of the other friends is a girl in our dorm. My friend is a lesbian and developed feelings for her. The other girl knew she was lesbian but kept doing things like holding her hand during movies or kissing her on the cheek.

My friend thought she was interested in her, but she was already kind of seeing a guy already. The only times she would make passes at my friend would be when her and her boyfriend were fighting. My friend is obviously being used as a rebound, and she knows it. I have spent many nights with her as she cried over this girl, but she keeps going back to her and trying to be friends, or more. The same thing keeps happening no matter how bad it gets. The girl even told her one time she liked her, and invited her to get a shower with her, but said it would never happen because she has her boyfriend.

She was crushed, but of course that didn't stop her from trying still. Recently, my friend and her roommate got into a big arguement, and now my friend is moving out. She is planning on moving in with this terrible girl who is just using her for revenge. Since being with her, she has barely hung out with me or done anything with me. We used to go eat lunch and dinner together every day, but now when I ask her to eat she either says no, or that she is eating with her friend. I feel like she is abandoning me for this girl who has hurt her countless times.

So, am I just being jealous and selfish, or is it her who is in the wrong?

How to I cheer up my best friend?
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05/01/2012 : My best friend is a guy, and it's been almost a year since his fiancee of 5 years dumped him. He is a loving guy and it has hurt him that he is 30 and now single what he desires most in this world is a wife and kids. He has been on a few dates and is always on the look-out for a new GF. His desperation is evident and can be a little frustrating to be around I know if any potentials sense the desperation they will run a mile. I think he has been emotionally distancing himself from me over the last few weeks as he becomes glummer.

My problem is how to help him through this rough patch being a BFF. I want him to know I care and he's not as alone as he thinks he is.

What should I do about my rude friend?
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17/11/2011 : Ok I'll try to keep this short. So I have this friend, let's call her Cici. She's not my best friend but we're really close and I can tell her almost anything. And we also make fun of each other as a joke a lot but we both know the other one is just kidding. So a couple of days ago, we were on a bus and she was teasing me about a guy and I did the same to her. Then she pretended to get rly offended and was like, gasp, I'm not talking to u! as a joke. Like a minute later she was talking to me again.

She talked to me the next day too. Then she texted me saying your a dork and I replied and so on. Then she said something similar the next day except she said wow your so weird. And then I got bored of the insult game so I just stopped. Then later I texted her and she was Luke ew it's u bye and I was rly surprised. That happened a couple more times. Then she asked me if I wanted to hang out. Immediately she said I meant to send that to my other friend. Not you. Bye. And she'll talk to me a bit in school but then completely ignore me.

I even told her please stop I'm already having a bad day n she didn't reply. Then I asked my other friend about Cici and she said well I talked to cici and she's not feeling good and wouldn't tell me more. So I texted cici saying do u wanna talk n she didn't reply. So if we talk at school it's extremely awkward. What should I do??? We had an amazing friendship that I don't want to lose.

whwat can i do when my best has so many other best friends?
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08/11/2011 : she is like my best friend.but she has so many otheer best friends.and she keeps maintaining them.its like she doesn't have time for me anymore.

what can i do to help my self-harming friend?
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17/10/2011 : my friend has shown me how she self harms herself, i have spoken to her and she says she can control it, she's agreed to stop but im worried if she does it again she wont tell me.. i want to help her, but she wont tell her mum or anyone else, is there anything else i can do?

How to overcome awkwardness and make friends
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29/09/2011 : Hi All, I was wondering if yyou could give me some advice I am in University i name, but don't n a new city and am in my 3 week. I have tried being outgoing, but feel I am still not making any head way in the friends dept. I know people but don't know how to become more than the shy guy-I don't want to be a James Dean but would like to have a group to hang out with. I have a colostomy which causes me a lot of stress, because it can act p in class,which tensesmeup. I know joining clubs etc, is impt but how do you get to know people better? Thanks.

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what can i do?
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20/07/2011 : what can i do?

i love a guy who knows it and ignores it.
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03/05/2011 : i love a guy in mu office. we are like friends, though not very close friends. i have always helped him in every possible manner which he knows. he is also aware of my feelings for him but he (i feel so)ignores me most of the time. i came to know that he too knows about it through my colleague. she was teasing him in my name and he strongly said to stop the crap and never joke about it again. realising this i too started ignoring him. then he started giving attention to me and was talking very sweetly.

i could no longer ignore him and started talking to him and then he was back to his old behavior. and this has happened a couple of times. he was also rude to me twice in the past over some office work i couldn't do properly . i was hurt and said nothing and then he tried to patch up things by talking again and caring for me. i am in a fix. i can't forget him and i do not understand him. does he like me? and is he hiding his feelings? or i m just overreacting? it's nothing?

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