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Husband's personal hygiene neglect.
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12/02/2013 : What is wrong with the man? He is basically a good man kind, caring, and a good father. He has a job. Hardly ever showers, cleans teeth, or wears deodorant. Has a unkempt appearance. He's not depressed. Smokes everywhere even though I've implored him not to. Found a whole heap of butts/ash on a little shelf in his room. Can't even be bothered using an ashtray. His room is really untidy. We're so different obviously. He wasn't as slovenly as this when we first met. What is wrong with him?
a difficult marriage work situation
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12/10/2012 : Dear freind , I find myself in a difficult situation. I married my husband about one and a year and a half. we have been together since 2005. I still love him very much however when we were picking up our wedding photos he got a call from some one offering him work in france. by the way he is bilingual. so I gave up my job to move over to france to support him. I had some financial omitments but he told me that all will be good. need less to say it is 7 or 8 months down the line from the move i still have no job.
the finatial situation is not good i am trying so hard to fit in and find a job I have always worked or been in a job. i am finding it very lonely. i find him making sarky comments to me and it is becoming a real issue. i also do all the cooking keep the home i have a rubbish cooker and is always making a big thing about it when i mess a dish up. I dont know what to do please help me
Am I right to mistrust my husband?
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15/03/2012 : I have been married for 3 months however I have been unable to trust my partner completely since one month before the wedding. Having been in a relationship where I was right to mistrust a partner, I think that I might be looking too deep into situations, reading the facts wrong or jumping to conclusions. I used to trust him completely, however when I returned from a month away I discovered he had been looking at an online dating site. I confronted him and he evaded the question so I ped it.
Then I found out he was messaging an ex girlfriend and organising to meet up in the daylight, however I am not sure if this happened. I now scour his internet history and find that he erases certain parts, rather than the whole history. This makes me suspicious. Through my suspicions, I counted our condoms (we no longer use them). On counting 1 month later there were some missing. We had used one. I confronted my husband and he swears he doesn't know what happened to them. I also checked his phone and noted that he has ively d messages from one male friend, and I am not sure if he has from others.
This is a problem for me as we met overseas in his home country and I am not a resident yet. I have no intention to stay in the country if I am not with him, yet my whole life is now here. I have no family or friends here to turn to. Am I reading too far into things? Everytime I try to talk to him about something specific he shrugs it off, we fight, or I let it go.
what should I do about the other girl?
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10/01/2011 : I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we are getting married in October, however last year I had to go abroad for a couple of months as part of my job. recently I have discovered an email between my boyfriend and a girl living in our area he says at the end of his message "can't wait to see you again" what should I do??
how do i know if my husband is lying and cheating on me?
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25/11/2010 : i was on the phone with my husband when he mentioned that he is having a stomach pain and he said he had the pain since monday.i asked him from the scale of 1 to 10, 10 being the worst how much pain do you have? he said 10,so i told him to call their office and asked if they can send him home.but he said he can wait until friday night which is day off.i really don't understand why he refused to call their office if he is really in pain since monday?
Am I still in love or am I just use to this person
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27/09/2010 : Dear friend I am really confused ive been married for 6months now but we have been together for 2 years at first things were great but then after havimg our son things changed he has become a stranger we never talk unless about our son he never tells me he loves me anymore and recently said he wasnt inlove with me that thats only at the begining recently we had a huge argument he got physical but lately I feel nothing for him I dnt want to be around him im not sexually attracted to him anymore I feel like I hate him i feel like im lonely and I dnt feel like myself amymore I use to be a happy person not anymore I feel traped I dnt know what to do I use to want things to work not anymore please help
Marriage Split after 9 months
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04/08/2010 : Hello About two months ago my wife of just nine months announced she was leaving, we had just moved into the house we had brought. We had been together for over nine years before this. She has left most of her stuff and her daughters, but has taken a rented flat and moved in. She has not stated it is over and when I ask she says she doesn't know. However, she has not contacted me at all since she left but has sometimes responded when I tried to talk to her although she never really wants to talk about the relationship.
I know if I didn't try to contact her she would most likely never speak to me again. I know that some will say just move on but the behaviour is unlike her and she has even left her pets here, it is almost as if she has run away from everything that was her life with me. I am trying to be as considerate as I can be although am very upset by all this. When I spoke to her the other week and asked what she had been up to she jumped down my throat and said she would be better if she didn't have me probing what she was doing, it was just a general question.
In short, I love her and still think that if she tried we could work things out. Am I being to soft, should I not speak to her and see, should I keep contacting her. Please anyone, I am at a loss as to what to do anymore
i have been married for 20 yrs. my husband admits cheating on me by having sex with a prostitute. He also has accused me of cheating.This is very hurtful as i have been faithful to him. He also has an addiction for chatlines
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09/07/2010 : should i stay with him
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