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Marriage Split after 9 months
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04/08/2010 : Hello About two months ago my wife of just nine months announced she was leaving, we had just moved into the house we had brought. We had been together for over nine years before this. She has left most of her stuff and her daughters, but has taken a rented flat and moved in. She has not stated it is over and when I ask she says she doesn't know. However, she has not contacted me at all since she left but has sometimes responded when I tried to talk to her although she never really wants to talk about the relationship.
I know if I didn't try to contact her she would most likely never speak to me again. I know that some will say just move on but the behaviour is unlike her and she has even left her pets here, it is almost as if she has run away from everything that was her life with me. I am trying to be as considerate as I can be although am very upset by all this. When I spoke to her the other week and asked what she had been up to she jumped down my throat and said she would be better if she didn't have me probing what she was doing, it was just a general question.
In short, I love her and still think that if she tried we could work things out. Am I being to soft, should I not speak to her and see, should I keep contacting her. Please anyone, I am at a loss as to what to do anymore
i have been married for 20 yrs. my husband admits cheating on me by having sex with a prostitute. He also has accused me of cheating.This is very hurtful as i have been faithful to him. He also has an addiction for chatlines
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09/07/2010 : should i stay with him
is my hubby cheating on me or bored with me?
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03/07/2010 : we have been in a relationship for almost 10 years.he is divorced from his 1st wife but they have 2kids.until now he was happy to see his kids 4/5 times a year (cause we live more than 1000 knm apart} now he blames me for not seeing them and demands to see them more often,this is impossible cause his job will be affected.we also share a son of 8 years old who he says he sees every day after work,so he considers our son lucky compareded to his other 2 kids. recently when he visited his kids,on his return i found a picture of a woman in his wallet(not his x) he told me it was an old friend,this old friend lives in the same town as his kids!!!!he has since moved out of our home but visits daily to see our son,i have tried to reason with him but he is so insistant he visits his old family every two months,i do not agree ,if he gets his own way we will never have time for our own family hols!!!! can someone tell me please is he likely to be cheating on me
Cheating husband, what should I do?
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24/06/2010 : Before marriage : I was a divorcee. I got married at the age of 20 and my first marriage lasted 10 years and I have a son from that marriage. Then I was single for 3 years before meeting my now husband. My husband was also a divorcee whose marriage lasted 2 years and after that he was living alone for 6 years. I and my husband met in Feb 2009 through a matriminial website. We liked eachother and also became intimate. He was ready to commit but I was uncomfortable since he had not asked his parents about me and nor had I met them.
When we talked about this, he told me that his parents dont want him to marry someone with a child. He said that his outlook is different and he is not going to marry according to their choice. He said he was keeping them informed. Later when he talked to them they were furious. They were totally against our marriage. he told me that we can try to convince them. I said that this is a kind of arranged marriage and I dont think I need to convince anyone. He should've thought about it earlier and still if he wants to back off, he can.
Later his parents came around but I was confused since I saw him going back on his promise. I thought that this is not a sign of strong character. Anyway, since I was also attached to him and I thought that atleast he always told me the truth, I agreed. We got married in July last year. Once married, we were happy with eachother. I concieved in August, but we lost the baby because of missed abortion. I had to take a break from my job and eventually also lost my job. We had thought that we would try again after 3-4 months.
In the meantime his parents visited and I was not able to get along with them. Though he did not take sides, he stood by me. All throughout I had noticed that there is something suspicious about the his relationship with one of his female friends. He talked about other friends and I also met them but not this woman, for a long time after our marriage. I'll call her A. When I met her, her behaviour was also a bit suspicious. He had told me that his ex-wife also had problems with their friendship.
Later I was sure that he was hiding things. I asked him many times but he would say that she is senior and there is nothing that I should worry about. So I had to find out the truth on my own. It was ugly. They had a relationship since more than a decade and They were meeting eachother even after our marriage. Once they went out for dinner together and he told me that he is with a client. Again I confronted him and wanted to know the truth, he did not come clean. I was very hurt but since he seemed committed to the marriage I decided to give him a chance.
I went to A's house and talked to her in presence of her husband. I told her not to meet my husband for the sake of our marriage. And I told the same thing to my husband. This was in March 2010 end. On 1st May, we went to a party and she was there. She came and talked to my husband when I was out of the room. when I came back, he told me that she has invited us for coffee. Later she came herself and my husband asked her for her convenient time. So their intention was clear. Later I found out that she had also visited his in his office on 30th April, a day before the party.
This time I did not want to trust him. He told me all about their relationship and I continued to live with him....but I was not happy. Now after more than a month I realize that I cannot forgive him. I cannot love him again. I was very committed to the marriage and also lost my health and job for giving him a child, but I was cheated. Moreover, this is not an affair that happened in the course of our marriage. It was before I came into the picture, so it is like getting married again without separation.
And I also feel that he cheated his ex-wife. He married her because his parents told him to, but was in this relationship all through. And obviously he is not honest. Dear Friends, What is your opinion about the whole thing? What do you suggest? Thankyou!
Scared of Committment
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29/03/2010 : I have been going out with my boyfriend for 4 months. I am 22 and he is 38. He says he wants to take me to Barbados and get married in autumn. I think it is too soon but I do like him and think the relationship could go somewhere How do I tell him this without upsetting him?
Marriage advice
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03/03/2010 : I am due to marry this summer to a man who I know is right for me but I do not find him as physically attractive as the ex-fiance who I am in touch with and see every now and again. He has gone through a bad break up and is having counselling to get back on track and regain his confidence. I have helped him as a friend as he has been near -suicidal at times - he says he loves me and I am dear to him and I find my old feelings for him are still there and I am thinking about him all the time when i am trying to plan a wedding to the man I intend to marry.
Any advice please?
Marriage mistake?
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25/01/2010 : I have been married for 2 years. My husband had a very well paid job when we met and married which all happenned very quickly. I am not ashamed to say that I married him for his money. Now he has lost his job and he says he wants to be a primary school teacher. This is not what I sigened up for. What should I do?
My girlfriends parents want us to get married.
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02/01/2010 : I have been going out with my girlfriend for 3 years. We went to her parents house on Xmas. They spent most of the time talking about when we were going to get married. What made it worse was that my girlfriend seemed to be in on it, like they had been talking behind my back. When we got home I said this to her and she went mad. She has now gone to stay with her parents again. I don't think that she will coem back unless I ask her to marry me. I am confused, I might have asked her to marry me but I don't want to under these conditions, I feel like I am being forced.
What should I do?
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