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Do I have to get married?
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16/12/2009 : I have been living with my girlfriend for 7 years. She says we have to get married before we can have a baby. She says she will not sleep with me until we are married now. I do not want to get married. What is the point? What would change? How can I explain this to her?

Shall I ask her to marry me?
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11/12/2009 : I have been going out with my girlfriend for 2 years. Recently we seem to have lost our way a bit, we seem to be having the same conversations over and over. I still love her, do you think I should aske her to marry me? This would liven things up maybe?

I don't want to get married
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11/12/2009 : My boyfriend proposed to me a year ago. Ever since we told our families it's all anyone ever talks about. In fact it's all we ever talk about as well. It's like it has taken over our lives and I hate it. I don't think things are going to be the same after we get married. I want things back like they were before, it's not like we went out for long before we decided to get married. I don't think we had enough fun before it got serious and now I think it's all messed up.

I should not have got married.
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08/11/2009 : I am a 38 year old man. I got married to a girl 10 years younger than me 9 motnhs ago. It was a whirlwind thing and it was mainly my idea to get married and the whole thing took on a life of its own and suddenly we were married. Assoon as ww were married I realised we should not have done it, it felt wrong, I hate the term husband. Also my wife has confessed to sleeping with someone else very early on in our relationship. She says that she wants a clean slate now that we are married. This just made me dislike the whole situation more, I find her revolting now and caan barely bring myself to touch her.

I do not know what to do. I have heard about annulments, are they easy to get? Can anyone tell me where to go to see about getting one? Or is it too late for that?

Want sex
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29/09/2009 : Hello I am a 66 year old man. I had not even used the internet until recently. I have been married for 44 years and I am bored of my wife. She is nice but I want to have some fun before I die. Are their any websites for older men who just want to meet women for sex. I have plenty of money but do not want to get swindled. Help please

I think girl wants marraige
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23/09/2009 : Hello, I have just come back from living in Japan for 3 years. My girlfriend was with me some of the time. Now I am back she wants us to move in an dshe keeps talking about children as if it is make or break for us. I am feeling pressurised, particularly as I am living at home with my parents for now. How do I tell her to back off without losing her?

Don't believe the father
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19/08/2009 : My husband and i have been married for 5 years and have a beautiful son together although 9 months ago i walked out on him taking our son with me. The marriage had been rocky for the past few years, although the final straw was he came home blind drunk at 7am after a night on the lash and became verbally abusive with me, backing me into a corner.(he'd turned his phone off as usual)even though he was supposed to be looking after our child the next day and i had to explain to my employer that i couldn't come into work as my hubby was too drunk to leave our child with!! This wasn't the first time he had done this, it has been the same througout most of the marriage.

He spent all the money i had saved for our child's christmas presents on stuff for himself (i had to hide it from him but he found it an blew it). He put me down throught our marriage in front of people, he got us into so much debt by lying about paying the bills and spending all our earnings and when i finally plucked up the courage to walk out he harrased me so much i ended up losing nearly 2 stone and was referred to counselling for depression. It has since calmed down between us and he has been a good father and seen our son when he can.

He gradually conviced me that he is a changed man and i agreed to see how things went and try to make a go of our marriage. I have so many doubts, i just don't know where to turn. i can't talk to my family or friends as they all hate him for what he has put me and my son through and if they thought we were tring again they would be so dissapointed. I haven't moved back in with him, although he is putting more and more pressure on me to do so. i just have this feeling that as soon as we go back i will be that prisoner again! not able to be myself and worried that i can't afford to buy clothes for my son because he's spent all our money! I don't know whether it is because he has controlled me for 5 yrs that i don't have the confidence without him.

One side of me still loves him, he is the man i married and the father of my child and we do have loving fun times together. the other side of me can't stand him or the thought of even kissing him. What should i do? please help?

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Further help and resources

http://www.saveyourmarriage.co.uk

http://www.professionalcounselling.co.uk

http://www.adviceguide.org

http://www.scottishmarraigecare.org

http://www.relate.org

http://www.yours.co.uk

http://www.thesite.org

http://www.insidedivorce.com

http://www.therelationshipgym.com

http://www.armchairadvice.co.uk