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SEND EMAILS TO DR KUQ YA VIA: great.spellcaster@yahoo.com . TO STOP ANY FORM OF HEART BREAK IN YOUR LIFE !!
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I want to say thank you to Dr Kuq Ya for all the good things he has done for me,Though am not sure if this is the best forum to post this but i cant hide my happiness and my Joy so i have to share it with people my marriage got crashed about a two years ago and i tried all i could within my power but to no avail i saw a post and testimonial about the good things of Dr Kuq Ya has been doing so i decided to give it a trial though he is always a busy man but when he responded back to my e mail,he gave me 5 to 6 hours for my marriage to be restored i am happy since then i am happy and i am living happily i am so grateful Dr Kuq Ya you can always e mail him here: great.

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Is the grass greener? Am I colourblind?
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Hi, This is the first time I've used a forum for this purpose and I'm pretty nervous about it, I hope some one can help. I basically need someone to tell me straight what to do, I feel really lost and like I'm having a quarter life crisis. I have been in a relationship for over a year now with this lovely man called Bill*. Up until about a month ago we were pretty much happy as larry, I actually felt like we were soul mates. Now for some reason I'm not sure if we are. I think it was all triggered when I was discussing partners meeting our friends at work.

Bill has never wanted to meet my friends but always put it down to his insecurities, saying they'd think he was boring. I believed him but encouraged him otherwise because both him and my friends are very important to me. Anyway after work that day we discussed it and came to the conclusion that he doesn't want to meet my friends because he doesn't think he'd like them (because they're loud and drink and he doesn't). This was a bit of a bombshell for me as how can I have a partner who never wants to meet my friends, for the rest of my life? During this discussion it also came up that we pretty much have nothing in common, only a passion for food/ baking / dining out.

I knew this before but before it didn't matter to me, now I find it really starting to matter and I'm noticing the differences more and more. He likes sport, I don't. I love fashion, he doesn't see the point. I've taken up running, he likes staying inside and playing computer games. He doesn't look after himself (i.e. not going to dentist, not buying new clothes when he has massive holes in all of them, not getting hair cut, not brushing teeth, not showering) and I take quite a lot of pride in my looks.

I've lost a lot of weight lately and think maybe I'm becoming more superficial and it's hurting the relationship because he can't fit in with that image. He is however very down to earth, caring and giving. He is a true gent. When I met him I thought he was 'the one' because we do (still) get along really well. He still makes me laugh and we can have fun together, its just rare that we DO things together anymore (because we want to do different things, ie. cinema/pub) A key point to this is libido.

In every other relationship I have had this has been a big issue, because I have such a low libido. Bill also has a low libido and it means that this is never a problem. He has started to brush me off a lot when i try to hug/kiss him but I can live with that for the ability for libido not to affect the relationship. Another important point is I have recently developed a crush on my boss ( that bombshell). It's become quite serious. I know people at work have noticed the flirting (from him to me- this will involve confiding in me, making excuses to come to my desk, telling stories to impress me/ make me laugh) but I have denied knowledge of it.

I'm aware it's going on, there's some serious sexual tension. I've tried avoiding him over the last couple of days, but it's difficult, I enjoy his company and we have almost the same shift pattern some weeks. Me and my boss (supervisor) have a lot in common, we have had similar backgrounds, enjoy the same things (music, socialising, drinking, travel - none of which Bill is interested in) we come from a similar area and have lived in this city for the same amount of time. The biggest difference is he's 9 years older than me.

NOW I know this is totally wrong to think like this and I feel awful about it. I wish I could stop thinking about him and erase him from my life, but seeing him all the time means I can't and it has meant some nights I'm in tears with guilt. I have worked with this man for about a year now but I don't know why only lately it seems to have escalated. 2 more important points, my supervisor is also in a relationship (Makes me feel sick to think I could be 'the other woman' - I may be reading the signs wrong, he may not be attracted to me, but I'm pretty sure he is) and the other point is I am living with Bill, and that leads to complications if we were to part.

I hope this makes sense, sorry it's long and I use too many brackets. I guess what I want to know is do I break up with Bill or not? I'm not expecting to break up with Bill and get together with my sup. because obviously he has a relationship too. But seeing as I'm emotionally confused (and a bit unfaithful tbh) do I end it for his sake? Or do I do something else and try and make it work between us? This could just be a phase, I'm feeling trapped with everything at the moment, including my job, my flat, this country etc (as I said quarter life crisis) Do I work through it and hope it'll pass? Sorry for rambling, please help?! x

Anonymous replies: Thank you for your response. I am 23 years old, I don't know if that changes anything. I had a talk with Bill* today. I explained my feelings about the relationship, but could not bring myself to explain the feelings I have for my Supervisor. He was angry at first, then confused, then upset. I now feel possibly more confused because I can't bear the thought of losing him. He does make me feel like the luckiest girl sometimes and I take him for granted. He said if I choose to leave he would be OK with it because he only wants me to be happy. All the time I feel like a spoilt brat wanting perfection that will probably never exist and in the process hurting a wonderful man. Oh dear...

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Here2help replies: You are certainly in a quandrey and there appears to be quite a lot going on but i am going to try and help you out. I have tried to guess your age in all of this to help me out. Not knowing your age its more difficult to advise because we all have segments in our lives when we can attribute certain patterns occurring. Anyway from what you have written you do appear to me to be very unsure about Bill. Perhaps deep down inside you feel you are making do and Bill is really more of a friend than a lover and partner for life. I think you are very dissatisfied with this aspect of your life but for some reason although you talk about Bills shortcomings i sense a deep insecurity within you. I feel that perhaps Bill offers you a sense of comfort in that whilst he does not meet up to your standards he neither poses a threat as you may feel a more attractive man would. I feel your attraction to the supervisor is simply your longing to be loved by someone whom you feel is more your equal and that deep down you do feel you deserve to find that love. Deep don you know the supervisor is not the one. Your only concern is not to go looking for it in places that are out of bounds. I feel this relationship at work if it did go any further would end in tears. I would advise you not to bother since he is also involved with someone else. My advice would be to sit back, take a long objective look at your life. Decide what it is you really want to change and then think about the small steps you can take to start making those changes. You talk about moving abroad which indicates to me that your not one to settle and make do and that eventually your relationship with Bill if he doesn& t pull up his socks (literally) you will end that relationship. You feel he is holding you back. Sometimes not everyone we meet was meant to be a lover and some people are only meant to be friends. There is a very compassionate person inside you and you tend to throw yourself wholeheartedly into the things you choose to take on until you either discard it satisfied you have given it your best effort. I feel there is still a lot ahead for you to explore with great opportunities coming your way. Your only blockage is being afraid to take the risk of moving on and leaving behind those things which are no longer useful. Perhaps you were an only child and so have been used to having many decisions made for you. Its now time for you to take your own life by the reins.

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What do I do. I love my wife but i'm in love with one of her best friends for a long time.
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I'm married 7 years with 2 Children who I love dearly. But I am also in love with another woman. I have known this woman since childhood. She is married and has 1 child. She is one of my wife's best friends and her husband is my best friend. I just can't stop thinking about her. I have fancied her even during our school years. I don't know what to do. Things could get very very messy. Should I spill the beans and tell her & see how she feels.

Here2help replies: There is no indication that this other women reciprocates your feelings towards her. It sounds as though what your experiencing is infatuation. Perhaps you began by simply finding her attractive and as the cracks in your marriage have begun to appear you have begun to idolize this other women as being someone who embodies everything that would make your life complete. I feel that there is some level of competition going on here and perhaps even jealousy towards what you see in this relationship between this other couple. I feel you may have spent too much time fantasising rather without checking back in to reality and now you are somewhat lost as to the real facts of this situation. I also feel that at a subconscious level you desire in some way to break up this relationship even at the cost of your own relationship. If you ever lost your own wife over this you would have serious regrets. My advice is to take a step back and think about your true motives and be honest with yourself.Your wife and this woman are very close friends. This woman cares about your wife like a sister and she would never allow herself to become involved with you.Learn to cherish what you have. If you are unable to do this then talk about the problem with your wife. I wouldn't advise you to use your fantasy about this other woman as the reason. It wont do you any favors. If your bored or dissatisfied with your own life either make a concerted effort to change it but don't set out to purposefully destroy anyone else happiness in the process.

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Should I tell him I like him?
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I've already told this boy I like him before a few times, but now I think I really should do it properly. He's good friends with my best friend and she think that I shouldn't go out with him because he's into sex etc. I text him loads and we flirt constantly. I feel really awkward meeting up with him but I really really like him.

Here2help replies: You are experiencing what every other adolescent experiences (infatuation, flirtation etc) and there is nothing wrong with that. Just be sensible. No one is every protected from hurt. Unfortunately most of us have been and will get hurt. But if you can be wise and think about the advice your friend has given you are forewarned in this respect. Think about what you also want in your future and consider how your present actions and decisions might affect your future outlook and plans. We all have choices to make for better or worse. Its much easier if we simply proceed with caution if the flashing light spells danger.

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My life is rubbish and feels meaningless.
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Hi everyone, I am a male, 23 years old and feel like my life is a waste of time. Firstly, I'm am trying so hard to get a job and every time it's seem to be the same old story, numerous interviews and job applications, but never any luck. I have gone through my town centre handing out CVs to managers in different stores and business, hoping to recieve phone calls or potential e-mail for work and hopefully improve my life.

What makes it worse is that all I do is just stay at home all day and never go out anywhere because of lack of finances such as, money. I wouldn't mind so much but I have never had any paid work, only temporary and voluntary work. It's the feeling of never knowing what it is Like to have a job. Secondly, it affects my general happiness, not earning a living or moving up the ladder, as they say. In the past, when I first left school, there were many promblems.

I had depression and anxiety, which prevented me from going to college and gaining more qualifications. Although, recently, I have gone back to college to gain the qualifications, for what my ideal job would be. In time, I hope to get to university next year but I am frightened of failing, due to my past. Thirdly, I really would like to meet a nice girl hopefully in the near future, again this ruins my general happiness because of not knowing, what it feels like.

A girlfriend and a job seems to elude me all the time. I want to go out more and mingle with people but without money, how can I? So it contanstly feels like a circle repeating every day. The scenario is driving me crazy and spmedays, I feel as if I am Losing mind. The only positive thing, that I have mentioned is that I am at college studying hopefully to be a journalist but even this is starting to bore me. There is no one there I really talk to or relate to,.

I have always struggled to fit in anywhere. I really would love to be popular for once and not be at home, worrying and scared of the future. Will things ever get any better? I really need some advice to stop feeling frustrated and angry all the time. How did I get into this position?

Here2help replies: Hi there. I'm sorry to hear of your plight and can see how and why you are feeling the way that you do. The positive is that you are only 23. Even at 43 it is NEVER too late to turn your life around. You mentioned you are studying journalism but have become bored with it. Sometimes when your young it can be hard deciding what you want to do and many people your age do become very frustrated and anxious about their direction due to the fact that they seem to keep changing their mins about what they want to do. Here is my advice to you: The only barrier to your fulfillment and eventual success is you. You have the power to keep moving forward in spite of all the trials and setbacks or to give up and throw in the towel. Nothing that was every great came easy. If you want easy (and Im sure you have already seen the choices) you know there isn't much effort involved. You are going to have to make a change not only in your direction but more importantly in your outlook. Stop beating yourself up for not finding that job or being able to meet that special girl. Accept that you are and continue to do all that you can and that as a human being you are not infallible. Keep trying. Never give up but don't ever beat yourself up. Become your own best friend and tell yourself that at least you are trying. You will eventually reach a level of success that will give you all that you deserve. You are very humble and that humility is what will carry you very far eventually once you start being kinder to yourself. If you find yourself in at the weekend rather than get yourself all distressed by thinking about the fact that you have no job or girlfriend use that time to make plans and know that there really IS a time for everything. If it hasn't happened yet its because its not your time yet. Be patient be kind to yourself. Count your blessings but never ever give up. Love and success is on its way to you providing you are also working your way towards it.

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