Question Detail: Can't move on

Can't move on

I split up with my girlfriend 2 years ago and it still hurts like it was yesterday. I cannot move on. What can I do?

Anonymous replies: I split with an ex about 2yrs ago and have since been out with a few people to deal with it didn't help now in a longterm relationship which is okay and I care for them, and yet I understand you nothing can compare to the love I had for my ex it sounds stupid but it just can't, the only thing that stops me going back is he didn't wine and dine me and treat me like a lady

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replies: Having a sensitive nature isn't a bad thing but it can carry emotional losses to excess sometimes. My wife died 15 months ago and like you I cannot move on 100% and like you I have blamed life about it all. But I am realistic enough to know that I cannot change what has happened and accept things, hard though it is. You have to accept what has happened, truly accept, and then give yourself permission to accept the loss and move onto new pastures. Stop blaming yourself, stop blaming life about it all and stop being bitter. Life has so much more to offer than hanging in the past. And, and this is important, accept that happiness and love does not hinge on one woman. There are probably hundreds of women within a few square miles of where you live who could make you happy again and let some sunshine back into your life. I do so hope you find happiness again ....

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