Question Detail: Should I stay or Go?

Should I stay or Go?

I am 25 years old my boyfriend is 50. He has 3 kids, one which is older than me.He is not at all a sugar daddy because we have struggled together. We have been together for 6 years (on and off). We are each others only friend as well. We do not trust each other. I am not physically attracted to him anymore.I one day can imagine my self , by myself..and the next I feel like I am too comfortable in my life with him...someone please help me on this...I truly need advice

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walker replies: your partner has reached a stage in his life where he probably is comfortable. his children are grown and he wants a lover and companion.for you to be having doubts about your relationship shows there are problems.what about the future, do you wnt children eventually? it,s easy to stay in a situation which is familiar,but life is risk. you can,t stay with someone because its the easy option or because you will hurt them if you leave. don,t look back in ten years with regrets. whatever you choose, do it quick as time ticks on. good luck.

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snoopy48 replies: Hi there ... Sometimes it's easy to fall into a rut like this that needn't even be comfortable, just difficult to move out of. I call it intertia and we all suffer from it. The very fact that you do not even trust each other speaks volumes. Having trust and being each other's best friend could keep you together happily, but you have neither. 'Letting go' is the big thing here ... I feel you have happiness ahead of you but not with this man. MY bottom line here? Just give yourself permission to grow up away from this man, take a deep breath and let go. Easier said than done, I know, but the alternative of staying around will be harder still. Good luck ...

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Anonymous replies: You are only 25, you are too young to stay with someone just because it is comfortable. From the few things you have written I cannot see any love or even respect left and thus think you will be better off rebuilding your life on your own. Good luck with whatever decision you take.

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