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friendship question

Im 16, and me and a friend (16)i met about a year ago have always had a flirty friendship, we never really saw eachother too much, beacause he lived about twenty minutes away by car, but nearly two hours by bus, as he was unable to get lifts we had rarely time to meet. However when we did meet, we always had such a fun time, we got on really well, with just the two of us, and also around his friends (: who i also knew before him. As we dont get chance to meet, we used to always talk over msn, we spoke about everything we had in commmon, and got to know eachother.

We made up silly private jokes, and always had a flirty relationship, it was obviuos to everyone who saw that we did too. We ofter had eachothers names or something about us in our names, something that only we understood or something that sounded weird to other people. He used to always speak to me when i'd sign on, and always text me when he signed off. I looked foward to hearing from him, and he always told me he did from me to. He told me how amazing i was, and how well we got on. After we'd met about 7 times, and spoken for about 6 months, i found out his bestfriend liked me.

I'd known his bestfriend before him, but he never told me. This confused me, but still me and him continued to talk. His bestfriend would always say to mee, you two stop flirting or something along those lines, and me and this boy would just send laughing faces to him, and we even talked about how our realtionship was flirty. All in all we talked alot, got on well, and grew closer, until i was certain he liked me. Until a girl in my year at school (all girls school) said to me she was really happy, and when i asked why she said she was going to get together with this boy.

when i asked his name, i was schocked to find out he was the same boy. I was in shock, and wanted to know more so i didnt mention that i knew him, i just said the name sounded familiar, she showed me texts, and told me all about how they talked and he told her how amazing she was, and much they had in common. But she had never met him in real life, as he hadnt been allowed down. That night he was begginging to talk to me less and less, when i noticed this girl had signed on msn. Then he just didnt talk to me for the whole night, he didnt text or anything.

The next day the girl said how he had said to her "you know when you first talk to someone, you know how you feel about them?" she had answered no? and he said "im experiencing it right now" she had said well its obviously about me, isnt it? and i didnt know how to answer? could he be talking about me? or to her? I know its most likely to be her, but i just am slightly confused, over how our relationship has just gone?

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Anonymous replies: I feel for you, this must be really confusing. That is the problem with MSN and other social media, they can cause confusion. I suggest you speak to this boy face to face and ask him what is going on. It sounds as if you are really close. The thing is you are very young, even if it turns out that he was talking to the other girl you can just move on and find someone else. You sound really sweet, don't let this get you down, I bet there are plenty of boys who would like to get to know you if they realise you are not hooked up to this boy.

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