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how shud i overcome my shyness on speaking with a boy whom i am in luv with? but he does not no it

04/09/2010 : i am a 13 year old girl. i am in luv with a boy. but he does not no it. we no each other but v hav not talked so much. yesterday i found him chatting with a few girls. this has worked up my jealousy n i think its time that i talked with him. i dont mean talking about the luv but , u no, just talking!

How to know if it's really over?
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17/08/2010 : I wrote a long long text describing my situation, until I realized the question in itself was quite simple: How do you know if it's really over? How do you know if you still love someone, or if you're with them simply because you're used to it? I've been with my guy for 10 years now. A house, no kids. I'm 31. And I'm coming out of a burn-out that lasted 2 years (still on the depression meds). And I'm wondering if we've grown apart, or if it's just a temporary thing... Any insights are appreciated!!

What will I do I love him but were just friends?
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12/08/2010 : He said he love me,and don't want to lose me as a friend,but he doesn't want commitment. We had sex several times but were just friends and were not in relationship, and he said he will not marry me either. what will I do I am in love with him?

what should i do i m unable to marry my love coz of very bad circumstances
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11/08/2010 : hi i m 24 years old girl working as a lecturer in a college. i love my college days best friend. we r known to each other from past 7 years. after collg when we were in our own ways we were in still contact with each oter as we were having excellent mental compatability with each other some time ago we both realise that our friendshio now smoothly turned out in love. we both love each other and everythng was gng out very smooth . he nd me we both want to be each other's for whole life. but the problem is that my family is quite orthodox about the love marriages and the biggest problem is that he is not very established in his career right nw.

so he said to me right nw how can i think about marriage. coz his professional circumstances are very bad nd he said that right nw it is ver difficult for him to take the responsibility of marriage. as he is also of same age nd i knw he is right. but wat should i do my parents are searching match 4 me. nd we both are quite dishappy about this from our hearts. he doesn't say anythng and talk quite less wat should i do.he doesn't communicate much as he knw that i more emotionally attached to him. i love him a lot coz he is such a nice person.

wat should we do

Is a big age gap in a relationship a problem?
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01/08/2010 : I am a young-looking 41 year old male who has recently started dating a 26 year old girl. She is an intelligent university educated, emotionally strong and independent lady. She chatted me up initially and I made clear my age from the outset. She says the age gap isn't a problem for her but I worry that we are at different stages in our lives and I don't want to hold her back from enjoying her twenties and maybe going travelling before she has any ties. I am looking for a long-term relationship and am wondering whether there is a genuine chance of this with her when our ages are so far apart.

Advice please!

I think I sabotaged my relationship. Am I still able to salvage it?
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21/07/2010 : I have recently made a huge mistake with my girlfriend. We have only been dating for two months, but within that time I fell in love. Things moved really fast in the first month we were hanging out everyday and nothing was forced, everything progressed naturally. I've never felt such a strong connection with anyone else as I felt with her and I started getting ahead of myself. I became so focused on how I was feeling that I didn't consider her feelings. She told me that she can see herself with me, but it was too early for her to say those 3 words.

That was when the negative thoughts started to develop in my mind. I started thinking, how could I feel this way and she doesn't and if she doesn't feel this way yet, will she ever? I started psyching myself out. My impatience took over and I unknowingly started pressuring her. Then finally last week I told her that I just don't feel like she can give herself fully to this relationship. Now that I think about it, everything she did was perfect, it was just I was use to the fast pace and when it slowed down I thought she was becoming less interested.

I realize that everything that has happened is my fault and I created problems that weren't there. Now she has asked for some space and she thinks that she's not ready for a relationship and that she has to figure things out. She still texts me and asks me how I'm doing. She still tells me news that excites her. She asked me out for coffee yesterday and we had a good chat. Either of us did not bring up what's been going on. I wasn't going to mention anything I truly believe we have something that doesn't come often and I'm just hoping I haven't done permanent damage.

I just want to know if I have a chance to save things. World, what are your thoughts?

Have I sabotaged my relationship beyond the point of repair?
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21/07/2010 : I have recently made a huge mistake with my girlfriend. We have only been dating for two months, but within that time I fell in love. Things moved really fast in the first month we were hanging out everyday and nothing was forced, everything progressed naturally. I've never felt such a strong connection with anyone else as I felt with her and I started getting ahead of myself. I became so focused on how I was feeling that I didn't consider her feelings. She told me that she can see herself with me, but it was too early for her to say those 3 words.

That was when the negative thoughts started to develop in my mind. I started thinking, how could I feel this way and she doesn't and if she doesn't feel this way yet, will she ever? I started psyching myself out. My impatience took over and I unknowingly started pressuring her. Then finally last week I told her that I just don't feel like she can give herself fully to this relationship. Now that I think about it, everything she did was perfect, it was just I was use to the fast pace and when it slowed down I thought she was becoming less interested.

I realize that everything that has happened is my fault and I created problems that weren't there. Now she has asked for some space and she thinks that she's not ready for a relationship and that she has to figure things out. She still texts me and asks me how I'm doing. She still tells me news that excites her. She asked me out for coffee yesterday and we had a good chat. Either of us did not bring up what's been going on. I wasn't going to mention anything I truly believe we have something that doesn't come often and I'm just hoping I haven't done permanent damage.

I just want to know if I have a chance to save things. World, what are your thoughts?

How do I save my relationship?

21/07/2010 : I have recently made a huge mistake with my girlfriend. We have only been dating for two months, but within that time I fell in love. Things moved really fast in the first month we were hanging out everyday and nothing was forced, everything progressed naturally. I've never felt such a strong connection with anyone else as I felt with her and I started getting ahead of myself. I became so focused on how I was feeling that I didn't consider her feelings. She told me that she can see herself with me, but it was too early for her to say those 3 words.

That was when the negative thoughts started to develop in my mind. I started thinking, how could I feel this way and she doesn't and if she doesn't feel this way yet, will she ever? I started psyching myself out. My impatience took over and I unknowingly started pressuring her. Then finally last week I told her that I just don't feel like she can give herself fully to this relationship. Now that I think about it, everything she did was perfect, it was just I was use to the fast pace and when it slowed down I thought she was becoming less interested.

I realize that everything that has happened is my fault and I created problems that weren't there. Now she has asked for some space and she thinks that she's not ready for a relationship and that she has to figure things out. She still texts me and asks me how I'm doing. She still tells me news that excites her. She asked me out for coffee yesterday and we had a good chat. Either of us did not bring up what's been going on. I wasn't going to mention anything I truly believe we have something that doesn't come often and I'm just hoping I haven't done permanent damage.

I just want to know if I have a chance to save things. World, what are your thoughts?

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