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Advice please over girlfriend
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22/03/2010 : So ive been with this girl for 2 and half years most of it was long distance. I met her through a family friend of mine and we been talking as friends for like 6 months straight before both of us developed these feelings for each other and she was 17 and i was 18 and we felt as if we were dating but really not because we have never seen each other in person ever so it was a pretty dumb relationship but at the same time we couldn't deny the strong feeling we had for each other you know? fast forward 2 years later we met and i stayed with her every time i visit and she always tells me im the one because both of us are like the same exact person with small differences.
She wants to marry blah balh but the long distance always gets to her and it does to me too. She being more emotionally weak at one point felt this relationship is pointless and wanted to break up not because of me but because of the distance. Then a few days later she couldnt take the time apart from us talking so we got back together again and now its march and she had this same problem about distance again since last monday . We have been separated for 2 weeks now and she says she wants to be with me but when im in the same city as her.
I am moving to her city for school in 2 months and it surprised me that she could not wait just 2 more months you know? but then i realized this relationship is pointless and i felt bad for tying her down and she stayed loyal for 2 and a half years. The main reason she broke up with me was because of the distance and since we don't see each other everyday that attraction she had for me was going down also which is understandable because i had the same up until I met her in person again all the spark and attraction came right back into me after seeing her in person.
Now the week later I ask her so since we broke up have u messed around with any guy? and she didnt wanna tell me because she felt it would hurt me but she did kiss another guy while she was drunk but then i tell myself i cant complain because we did officially break up so there are no rules attached but still i feel its because of the long distance is what is giving us problems because everytime i see her in person all the problems go away and she just begs n wishes that i just live there and now that i finally am in 2 months she cant wait for that and just keeps telling me I just wanna be single until you move here, I wanna be with you when you move here and blah blah blah now i ask myself after all this pain she put me through when she begs for me back which i know she will should i take her back when i move out there? even though i still respect her for staying loyal to me for 2 and half years I feel I should just let her off the chain for these 2 months and see where me and her stand when i move there.
I dont know what to do though our relationship is just flat out perfect except for the distance and that is what made her dump me until i move there and the thing is like honestly i am OK with us breaking up because i understand this long distance for 2 young people is pretty stupid but the only thing im not really OK with is her messing around with other guys because my feelings are still there regardless you know? she still tells me im one of a kind and she will never find a guy like me but still if its like that then why couldn't she wait 2 more months? so i don't know if i should consider taking her back or not.
what do you guys think? sorry for the long read but i want to be as detailed as possible so you guys can hopefully see it from my perspective. thank you to all who take their time to help me out with this annoying situation.
Birthday gift bought before breakup
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22/03/2010 : my boyfriend recently dumped me on very flimsy reasons and i'm very hurt. at the same time i love him and hope he comes back to me coz aside from the decision to end the relationship without talking to me to try and fix the problem he is a very nice guy. his birthday is coming up, and i want him back but giving him time, should i give him the gift i already bought while we were together?
B/F cheating
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22/03/2010 : my boyfriend who i was with 2 years and we live in two different countries, i just found out that he was cheating on me for a month with his new flat mate. i mean to go and see him next month , we had planes and i love him so much and i want him back, what should i do to get him back?
Going to miss him
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21/03/2010 : I graduated from high school last spring, and my boyfriend "James" is graduating this year. He's the adventurous type, and is going to a college about 6 hours away and possibly studying abroad so he can travel all over the world. I'm happy for him, but I'm also very sad, because I stayed in our hometown for college (I'm much more of a homebody), and I won't be able to be with him. James and I are very close, and I know you may shake your head and laugh because we're so young, but we've both thought about it long and hard and we realized that we'll most likely get married later on down the road.
Now, my problem isn't that James wants to travel, it's that he doesn't seem to be bothered about leaving me. I know he is, because we've talked about it, but he's a little insensitive about saying things like, "I just can't wait to get out of here!" I don't think he realizes how much it hurts me. But I don't want to tell him that, because I feel it would be selfish of me to shoot down his enthusiasm. I don't want to be the kind of person who has to drag people down to my level when I'm sad.
I think what I'm really bothered by is his lack of empathy. He cares about me very much, and most of the time he always knows how to make me feel better if I'm unhappy. But sometimes he just gets so caught up in things that he's excited about, he doesn't pay as close attention to my feelings. I'm torn. I often find myself thinking, "Is this selfish? Or is this something I have a right to do?" Is it selfish to ask him to hide his happiness at leaving? Or am I doing an injustice to myself by hiding my own feelings?
What should I do about my boyfriend's refusal to phone ? and general lack of contact?
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17/03/2010 : We have been dating for 7 months and see each other about 3-5 times a month. We were both very busy in the beginning, and now my work has slowed down, and I find myself wishing we could see each other more often and having more communication in between meetings. We text each other every 3-4 days or so, but while in the beginning I find this SMS thing wonderful I am beginning to get annoyed. I've hinted at this before a month or so into dating, but he kept texting me instead...so I am not sure if I should even try to bring it up again or is this just a symptom of a bigger problem and time for me to leave?
Should I leave my wife?
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14/03/2010 : I have been married for 12 years and have 2 daughters. My wife and I have not got on for years but the marriage has sort of worked. Now I have met this woman who I used to know and have been having an affair. She wants me to leave my wife. I think the children would understand but I have a very successful business to which my wife would be entitiled to half. I employ 40 people and feel responsible for them. What should I do?
Husband is leaving for the world cup
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13/03/2010 : I have not been getting on with my husband for the last 9 months. He told me the other night that he is going to move out while the world cup is on. He is going to stay with a friend until England get knocked out. Does this mean he thinks more of the world cup than he doas of me? It's not like I don't let him watch the football.
How can I tell her I do not want a relationship.
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13/03/2010 : I am single. I recently went on a night out with some friends There was a really nice girl there who I was talking to. She gave me her number and I texted her the next day. She did not reply. I spoke to a mutual friend and she said that this girl had said she did not want a relationship. The thing is, nor do I. I just want to spend a bit of time with soemone and have some fun. How can I get this girl to understand this.
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