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How can I tell her I do not want a relationship.
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13/03/2010 : I am single. I recently went on a night out with some friends There was a really nice girl there who I was talking to. She gave me her number and I texted her the next day. She did not reply. I spoke to a mutual friend and she said that this girl had said she did not want a relationship. The thing is, nor do I. I just want to spend a bit of time with soemone and have some fun. How can I get this girl to understand this.
Should I kiss on film?
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10/03/2010 : I did noy know what category to put this in. I am student at a university where they have a film studies course. The other day in the canteen 2 guys asked me if I would be in their film project. I said yes. When it came to it I had to kiss one of them in the film. Not just a quick kiss either, we had to be laying down doing it for ages. I'm not sure what to do, we have only been rehearsing so far and they want me to go around tontheir house tomorrow to film it. There is only me and these 2 boys in the film.
Should I go?
How do you know if you should stay or go .
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03/03/2010 : I have been with my boyfriend for five years. We met when we were young and it was initially the " chase " that was the reaction. Five years has flown by very quickly and we are now building a house together. I find that he gets abusive in regards to yelling at me for things that aren't my fault, at least once or twice a week. He will yell and swear at me if i make a mistake like accidently taking his mobile phone with me or forgetting to do something. Finallly after snapping i get so angry with him and yell even louder at him.
It turns into a viscious circle. I dont know what to do - when he is nice and we are getting along i love him more than anything, bnut it is like when he is in a bad mood he snaps / changes into someone else.? Should I stay and try to help him change his moods , if so how do i do this ? Or should i go and endeavour the heart ache of leaving someone i love due to their temper.
We have a baby but he won't marry me.
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19/02/2010 : Hi, I have been with my partner for three years and we have a six month old baby boy. When I first met Paul he was going through a vicious divorce and custody battle with his ex wife over their 5 year old daughter. It was a difficult time but I tried to always be there for him and the bond that I created with his daughter was very strong due to the amount of time I gave to her. Not long after he lost custody of his daughter (who was taken to live in America with the ex wife's new husband) Paul asked me to marry him.
I accepted and was so happy. I was at this point in my early thirties and had been diagnosed with PCOS and told not to leave it too long to have children. Because I knew that we were going to get married, as he had asked me, we decided to go ahead and conceive our son soon after. For me,having been raised with traditional values, I felt that it wasn't ideal having a child before marriage BUT that my son wouldn't know any different because by the time he was able to understand the concept of marriage his mummy and daddy would be married anyway and we would all have the same surname.
This is where it all starts to go wrong. The ring that I had chosen and tried on never turned up all because I was stil friends with my ex partner whose father was dying of cancer. My partner Paul saw that as some kind of deceit and went through my phone bills highlighting the numebr of times I had been in contact with him. I found this slightly ironic considering the fact that after all his ex wife put him through he still maintains a very amicable relationship with her and he even employed one of his ex girlfriends of seven years, and therefore works with her nearly every day.
I have never had a problem with this and actually thik it is good when people can live life without hatred. Anyway, I digress. Here I am now with a beautiful baby and no prospect of marriage. Paul tells me now that he isn't ready to be married and that actually he doesn't see it as a big deal in life anymore. He says that he has made the biggest commitment to me...having a baby with me and that marriage is 1% not 99%. He says that we may do one day BUT it would appear that it is all on his terms now.
He steers the boat and I am merely the passenger. I feel really cheated for both myself and my son. I am struggling with the fact that he commited to his ex-wife and daughter and that I am being punished for the downfall of his past marriage. He says it was a mistake to marry her and that she blackmailed him into doing it (they got married when their daughter was one years old and the ex-wife said either he marry her or she is leaving..so he married her). I cannot do the same clearly and I don't want to but I question whether or not I should just go.
I am scared that I am going to spend the next 10 years or so of my life hoping that we can be a 'proper' family. Paul says this is silly and that we are a 'proper' family. I can't say I agree, my child doesn't even have my surname as Paul wouldn't agree to us double barrling it and I am constantly being asked my near perfect strangers when we are getting married, it does my head in. I also feel trapped because I live in HIS marital home and have no home of my own. I am also 4 hours away from my closest friends and family as I moved my life to be with him.
He says that I will ruin our childs life for my own selfish needs if I leave and talks about the kind of awful life our son will have as I cannot financially give him the same lifestyle on my own. My Partner is reasonably wealthy and money is clearly important to him...(oh and I should add that I suggesed signing a pre-nup if he married me but even that wasn't good enough). A month ago I left for a couple of days and Paul went through two emotions....anger followed by desperation. I went back for our sons sake but as I sit here now I wonder if I did the right thing.
I feel disappointed and yet Paul has such a way of twisting things that at times I even try to tell myself that marriage isn't important to me...but I know that it is. I aked him to see a counsellor with me but he flatly refuses and says they are a waste of time. What can I do? I do love him, yet I wish I didn't because then it would be easy to leave without guilt. Please help. Lucy
break up or make up? what do i do?
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30/01/2010 : i have been with my fiance for 3 years. it started off good, but now we fight all the time, i dont have any desire to have sex with him, half the time i dont want to be by him, and i dont cuddle with him at night. we fight about stupid things to. and my ex and i are still friends. i talk to him alot. just recently i confessed to him that i still think about him, and he told me the same. i dont know what to do. part of me wants to leave my fiance and rekendle the flame with my ex. But then i think about my fiance with another girl and i dont like it.
i get jealous just thinking about it. Im unhappy, i know he loves me very much and would do anything for me. but when we fight and he says hes going to go back to our hometown, i dont stop him. its almost like it would be easier if he ended it. he let his family and all his friends and moved with me. i need help please.i feel as tho in falling out of love with him...
In love with younger woman
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27/01/2010 : I am 47 year old man. I take my daughter to school every day. There is a woman who brings her son the the school everyday who I always talk to She is lovely but I think she must be about 25. Don you think she could be interetsde in a realtionship or am I kidding myself?
I'm going to be left on the shelf
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25/01/2010 : I am 29 and single. I have just been listening to the radio and a report has come out that says if yoyu rech 30 and youi have not found Mr Right you should think about just settling for someone. Does anybody agree with this?
Should i make a move?
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15/01/2010 : I am going out to my local tonight. There is this beautiful girl who goes there. I really like her. She is quite a lot older than me. Sometimes she looks at me, I think she might like me. Should I try and speak to her or should I wait for her to speak to me? This has been going on for a year now.
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