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how to have fun without the internet, computer, mobile or tv?
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29/08/2010 : its summer and i am really bored. theres not much to do at my house. i don't get money from my parents that often. all my friends live in different areas that i do and i lost my travel card and have to wait two weeks till i can one. even after i clean the house and help out my parents i still have loads of time left. i spend tons of hours watching tv and on the internet. when i'm not on that i am on the phone. i am a shy person so i don't feel comfortable being around people too much. do you know any fun things that would occupy my days? i am getting kind of sick of watching tv or being on the computer all day.
should i risk looking like a loser and walk alone to the mall down the road?
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24/06/2010 : im staying with my mom in kansas city and she works the night shift so a lot of the time im at her apartment alone. ive been really bored and im assuming if i went somewhere id have a lot more fun. but if i walk to the mall or something i dont want to look like a loser since ill be all alone. should i go and try something new, or not risk it and figure something else out?
I went out with a boy, who i really cared about, he meant the world to me, and i ended it for some odd reason? and now i have to spend most days with him, and the feelings are flooding back?
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05/06/2010 : Basically i went out with a boy last summer, we had been friends for months before, pretty close. we went out for about two months, and i just suddenly started pushing him away for no reason, i had a few problems at home and with a troubled illness and everything, and instead of letting him be there for me, I treated him badly. I just broke it off, for no apparent reason, and i didnt realise at the time how much i missed him until now, about half a year on, and we hadn't spoken until the other night, we tried to make amends, and he blamed himself, and i blamed myself.
I know that if we start to become friends all the old feelings will come back, but this time i think i should refuse to act on them? as he deserves so much better than someone like me, who broke his heart, he told me he was in love with me, and he told several other people, and i feel ashamned to have been such a horrible and bitchy person to him. Basically it's a huge regret, and i'm scared that even if he can forgive me, and we can move on and restart that i'll hurt him again :'(?
In a relationship with a close friend and then never talk? and now i have no choice but to spend time with him, and i feel bad, maybe i treated him badly.
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30/05/2010 : well i went out with a boy, and we had been close friends for aa few months, we went out for about two months, and i had a lot going on at home, and with problems. Tough childhood etc. and i kept pushing him away instead of letting him be there. I told him at the start of the relationship that if i did that for him to ingore it, and if i tried to end it to stop me. After a couple of months i ended it, and i was happy, i felt free again, even though i did miss him. The problem was he was very gutted, he meant alot to me, even as just a friend, i cared for him alot.
And he told me how much i meant to him, and he wasn't ashamed to tell everyone else either. But once we broke up, he changed and he got with other people, and he found new friends, and hes almost hated now. However just recently some of my bestfriends have alomost reconnected with him and so i almost have to spend time with him. I've almost forced myself to hate him now, and everytime i look at him, i get soo angry at him for changing, and i blame it on myself. My friends no how much i detest him, but yet i'm beginning to realise that the problem is all mine, and he said he could hide his.
He has told people that he hates losing me, but finds it easier as he cannot be friends with me as it hurts him too much. And now i am going to spending more time with him, I keep blaming myself, that it's my fault he changed, and that he wants to hate me... And i do hat feeling like this, but i dont know what to do about it?
Meet someone randomly, get on well, and never talk again?
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23/05/2010 : Well one of my friends was asked out on a date by some guy she knew, and not wanting to hurt his feelings or lead him on she agreed to like a double date, so i get setup witth his friend. We spend the day and evening together, and suprisingly we got on pretty well. By thhe end of the night, we'd flirted, had a laugh, and got to know eachother quite well. Was sad when it ended acctually. Then the next day i added him on facebook, hoping for maybe a chat with him or someething, and nothing? he hasnt spoken to me since.
Maybe he had a laugh but cant be bothered with me? or maybe i just assumed he had a good time as he was being polite? whats going on here?
One of my best friends (male) is jelous of my other best male friend.
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06/05/2010 : I have been really close with this guy for just over a year, not that long i know but we're really close. Almost a year ago in the summer i also met another boy, and we became close aswell. We lost touch over time, but recently reconnected when we bumped into eachother and now we are best friends again. Just over the past month my original best friend has been acting soo odd. He gives me horrible looks and goes all silent when he sees me with this other boy (which is alot, as there pretty close friends to!) we always meet up, me, both of them, and some of my other female friends aswell.
My original bestfriend has been getting upset soo much lately whenever i hug, or go near this other boy. And one day he completely flipped and walked off, and said he wanted to hit him? I asked him what was wrong to his face and over msn. and the only answer i got was i feel like you like him more than me? but i reassured him that they were both my best friends and i loved them both for different reasons. But then again a week later he still was hiding his feelings and not telling me something. Everytime i ask he just gets annoyed and says i cant be your friend anymore.
which is really upsetting me. Turns out its not the first time either, last summer i had a boyfriend and for his birthday me him and a few friends went camping, he invited my original best friend, and he said he couldnt go as he was busy? turns out he said that as he didnt like me being with this other boy, and didnt want to see us together? I'm not sure what to do about him, as he refuses to tell me whats wrong, and thinks it would be best if we were no longer friends ): Also i dont just have these 2 guys as close friends, so its not like my original friend no longer gets my whole attention as i have alot of other best male friends,(we all are a massive group of friends) I dont fancy either of these boys, and they know that, i dont lead them on either, i treat them like they treat me, and i thought i was just like a sister to them both, but im starting to think maybe they see me as more? My original best friend is very nosey about other boys he doesnt know who i hang around with, hes always wanting to meet them, and he doesnt like me being to close to anyone.
He doesnt want me to go out with anyone either, whenever i make remarks about someone, or when ive been asked out, he has ways of trying to make it fall apart, which is why i wont tell him that i really like a different boy at the moment, one that both these boys know really well. I feel like i cant tell either of them, as it could cause so many arguments, ive all ready ruined there friendship i dont want to ruin the boy i like friendships to?
Liking a boy, whos hung up on his ex or another girl?
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26/04/2010 : Okay so i met him about a year ago through a friend, we're both 16. at first we were pretty close but he lives about an hour and a half away by bus, and he cant get lifts down (only takes about twenty-thirty minutes then) so i dont see him as much as i'd like. We talk pretty much every night over text or msn, and we get on pretty well. When i first met him, his girlfriend he'd been with for a year, had just dumped him, and he was pretty cut up. But after time he said he got over it, and we got closer.
I pretty much see him every weekend, and every other day in holidays too. However i think he's still really into his ex, and she is stringing him along again, and hes falling for it. He always meets her, and talks about her. And i know that shes not really bothered about him and is pretty muchh using him. His best friend said he's really into someone, so its either his ex or another girl, he wouldnt tell me who which is fair enough, its not his secret to tell. But im pretty confused at the moment over what to do.
i cant tell him how i feel as i know that will completely ruin the friendship, and im not sure how he feels. We always joke around and flirt together with little private jokes, and he seems to be really into it, but then theres still this other girl? Also im worried about being in a relationship with him, hes had more experience with them than me, and even though hes not the type for pressure, i feel like he'd want more? help?
Don't know what to do about liking my best guy friend as more?
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14/04/2010 : ok, so me and my best friend met just over a year ago when we were both 15. He's funny, sweet, makes me laugh when im in any mood, i adore his company, and i look foward to being with him. When we first me through our other friends we became pretty close. He's a very friendly person, so he gets on really well with every girl and guy i know. He's really liked among our massive group of friends as everyone thinks hes really funny etc. After we'd known eachother awhile we started to talk more and more, and all through summer holidays etc we'd meet with our friends.
At first he was my adorable best friend and i never saw him as anything else. We were close but i wasn't dissapointed as such if he wasn't with us one day or something. Over time i met other people and he had a random relatioship, but we never really went out with other people so to speak. Recently i've just started to see him in another way, something just seems to have cllicked in my mind and i've taken in everything about him i wouldnt usually notice. I enjoy his company without fail, its never awakward between us and we get on really well, and im 100% myself around him.
We're fine in a group or even when it's just us we always have somethin to talk about. The past few weeks especially i've been with him everyday after school hours, every weekend, and now in the holidays, and the feelings are growing stronger. My friends keep telling me to see how he acts around me, to read the 'signs' but its almost impossible with him because he is just all around friendly person. He's veryy touchy feely too, when he sees all his female friends hes always running to give them hugs and he always mocks and play fights with them etc.
So its difficult to say if he acts different around me. He tells his friends im his best girl friend, and i do the same to mine. Just the other weekend when we randomly got left alone we were walking to find other people, when we saw a friend of ours and she bought up the question of wether both of us would ever go out, and as i was expecting him to almost say no way, and step back i didnt react, but instead there was just silence and we looked at eachother, until he mentions we're best friends and she says exactly, your perfect.
After we just walked of and acted like it never happened, and we never talk about eachother in that way, i tried to see about his reaction but i was thinking maybe he just didnt say no because he didnt want to hurt my feelings? Theres so many unanswered questions i wish i knew, but overall i know i like him, and i dont know what to do about it? If i tell him or try to tell him it may make it completely awkward, and i know that with him theres no inbetween, he either really likes me or he just is my best friend nothing more.
But it's now getting worse and i think people can see aswell that i'm starting to really like him, as my descirption of him now when people ask why we're soo close is because hes the only person who can really make me feel happy and smile no matter what mood im in, and i think if someone can do that there pretty much worth it (: So need help on what to do? I know its long but im completely confused, am i his bestfriend who he just loves spending time with or am i more?
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