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What should i do about my ex after we have been to court

15/03/2013 : i have been split up from my ex for nearly 2 years now, i have a daughter with her who is nearly two and half. i had to take her to court because she wouldnt let me see my daughter, because i wouldnt get back with her. The judge could see that all the lies she told and said i can have my daughter every weekend but one. but every time my ex dont get what she wants she keeps threatning me saying i cant have her and i need to get a summons or contact my solicitor. Thing is my ex has had mental problems in the past and get things in her head and i no idea what she on about.

I have a really special bond with my daughter and cant bear the thought of not see her. i cant afford any more solicitors fee as the court and solicitor has cost nearly £10.000 PLEASE HELP.

He split up with me, I had sex with someone and then lied about it - am I in the wrong?
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24/02/2013 : Hi My boyfriend split up with me, we'd been together for three years and he cowardly ended it over the phone - he was my first and I was his. We ignored each other for a while and then decided to become 'friends with benefits' (awful mistake). During this, it seemed like my feelings were getting hurt and his weren't he used to say things like 'don't get attached to me, get attached to my d**k'. I also started to hear things about him liking other girls until it got too much, I was very drunk and slept with another guy behind his back.

He's been prone to get violent and angry in the past and although I knew we weren't together I couldn't bring myself to tell him - it was a mistake and it happened purely because of how much he'd hurt me. Then around three months later after my constant lying he found out and reacted just as I thought, he's now abusing me in so many ways. He's acting although he suddenly wants me back, i'm not allowed out with my friends, he has my facebook password and checks my phone regularly. He also send me quite a lot of abuse.

What should I do, am I in the wrong? :(

Im still totally in love with my ex and have nearly blurted his name out during sex with my longterm boyfriend of two uears
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18/10/2012 : I cant make sense of it. I thought i was over him. He took no interest until i went with a friend of his which im not proud of and for the record. Ill rerepeat im sorry. When i first got with partner of now. I met up with ex as friends for a drink. He asked to kiss me but i dont believe you should cheat just because your other half is away. Im really close to my partner of nows familyand think of them as as close my own family. So i guess im scaref of taking that leap of rebuilding those connections.

Sometimes when i think about my ex in a innapropriate way i punish myself and make myself sick and tell myself im ugly and not worthy. Please help

I hate seeing my ex with someone else?!
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08/04/2011 : My ex dumped me back in august. i was heart-broken. he then went and asked out his ex and hurt one of his friends as well. I have mostly moved on and am now in a relationship with one of my good friends, we are happy together. my ex saw my friend hugging me (when he was just my friend few months ago) and he got jealous, told me he half wanted to kill my friend because he had his grubby little hands on me and spread rumours that me and my friend were going out. Wel now i am going out with that friend, it all happened seperate from that situation.

my ex has told me that he still misses me, he remebers everything that was important and if he could go back to last summer he would. then he was saying i dont know what i want and what if i want you. then got cuirous about what me and my boyfriend had done and was asking if it was the same. now hes got a new girlfriend and i feel like im getting jealous, i dont like seeing her with him. im glad hes happy but its making me down. i feel like im just stuck. its like ive lost everyone almost, my ex(was my best friend at one point), some mates and im gonna lose my boyfriend cuz hes moving to germany in a few months.

i told my ex im happy for him and that im sorry for breaking his heart (though i didnt) and he says that im lieing and that he doesnt care. i dont know what to do. i hate seeing them together. should i be torturing myself like i am? should i feel like this?

What should i do about my problematic Ex?
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07/01/2011 : my ex and i started great as friends, our relationship that grew was great too. we were together for 9 and a bit months. we were very close and i got a bit obsessed about him. we were both very much in love (or what we supose was) he said he couldnt live without me. i felt the same. then. he dumped me in august. we are no longer friends. it was a messy ending. every time i have tried to talk to him - as we go to the same school - he seems to hurt me more. he is difficult to talk to and is very stubborn.

i told him i missed him (by text) and he said 'we both know that is a lie and that you actually dont'. this was true, i do miss him. i have to mention that despite still having feelings for him, i feel good and happy without him. i feel ready to move my life on. the text i sent him was on new years eve. it was my way of getting everything from the past year off my chest. but as usual it turned into an argumnet. and now he thinks something that is completely untrue. i wont take him back i know that.

as we go to the same school it has caused a few problems rumours being started and awkwardness. he has texted me things but not done them e.g. if you dont reply i will ask you at school. but he hasnt. today he seemed to have a problem with me looking over at him, really just a casual glance asd we hang out quite close. he asked my friend why i did, why cant he ask me? i sometimes catch him looking at me with a guy friend, he admitted being jealous of him hugging me a month ago (that was what started the rumours).

Sometimes i just find him looking at me, moody, depressed, puppyeyed almost. i would like to see what people think of my situation please. it would be nice to see what others think of it. thanks.

threatening txts
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29/03/2010 : I split up with my boyfriend 6 weeks ago. He keeps texting me and the taxts are getting more and more horrible. The last 2 threatened me with violence if he sees me with another man. He is a taxi driver and I think he might be following me or getting hid friends to keep tabs on me. What does he have to do before I call the police?

Can't move on
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14/03/2010 : I split up with my girlfriend 2 years ago and it still hurts like it was yesterday. I cannot move on. What can I do?

Wife worried about Ex
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13/03/2010 : My girlfriend who I split up from 9 years ago keeps texting me. She says I was the one and that she wants me back. I am married now but my wife is very insecure about thios waoman. If she finds out that I have been getting texts from her she will flip out. What should I do?

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