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how shud i overcome my shyness on speaking with a boy whom i am in luv with? but he does not no it
i am a 13 year old girl. i am in luv with a boy. but he does not no it. we no each other but v hav not talked so much. yesterday i found him chatting with a few girls. this has worked up my jealousy n i think its time that i talked with him. i dont mean talking about the luv but , u no, just talking!
How do I save my relationship?
I have recently made a huge mistake with my girlfriend. We have only been dating for two months, but within that time I fell in love. Things moved really fast in the first month we were hanging out everyday and nothing was forced, everything progressed naturally. I've never felt such a strong connection with anyone else as I felt with her and I started getting ahead of myself. I became so focused on how I was feeling that I didn't consider her feelings. She told me that she can see herself with me, but it was too early for her to say those 3 words.
That was when the negative thoughts started to develop in my mind. I started thinking, how could I feel this way and she doesn't and if she doesn't feel this way yet, will she ever? I started psyching myself out. My impatience took over and I unknowingly started pressuring her. Then finally last week I told her that I just don't feel like she can give herself fully to this relationship. Now that I think about it, everything she did was perfect, it was just I was use to the fast pace and when it slowed down I thought she was becoming less interested.
I realize that everything that has happened is my fault and I created problems that weren't there. Now she has asked for some space and she thinks that she's not ready for a relationship and that she has to figure things out. She still texts me and asks me how I'm doing. She still tells me news that excites her. She asked me out for coffee yesterday and we had a good chat. Either of us did not bring up what's been going on. I wasn't going to mention anything I truly believe we have something that doesn't come often and I'm just hoping I haven't done permanent damage.
I just want to know if I have a chance to save things. World, what are your thoughts?